It Wasn’t Easy — That’s Why It’s Easy - Manisha Khanna

Our mind has a strange problem: it does not understand the word “don’t.” The moment we say, “I don’t want stress,” the mind says, “Okay, let me think about stress all day.” When we say, “I am not able to do this,” the mind calmly replies, “Alright, I will make sure you never do it.”

The mind is like a stubborn child. Tell it, “Don’t eat the chocolate,” and suddenly, chocolate becomes the purpose of life.

So instead of saying “I can’t do this,” we should say, “How can I do this?”

The moment you change the sentence, the mind changes direction. Earlier, it was looking for excuses; now it starts looking for solutions.

When we say something is not achievable, we should treat it like a challenge, not a full stop. We should train our minds like a strict but funny coach:

“Okay, dear mind, you think this is impossible? Fine. Now sit down, make a plan, learn the skills, try again, fail again, but we are not leaving this ground until we find a way.”

Life is actually a very funny teacher. First, it gives the exam, and then it teaches the lesson. Nothing worth achieving is easy, but the truth is — once we decide that ‘don’t’ is our new goal, the difficult road becomes interesting.

So next time when you say, “It’s not easy,” just add one more line:

“It wasn’t easy, that’s why it will be easy — because I will learn how.”

Manisha Khanna

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