Educated: Memoir of Dr Tara Westover - Chapter 2 and 3

Meeting Purpose: To read and discuss Tara Westover’s memoir, Educated.

Key Takeaways

• Mother’s Strategic Autonomy: Tara’s mother used her midwifery income to gain independence, strategically installing a phone and securing birth certificates by framing them as necessities for her work, which her government-averse husband accepted.
• High-Stakes Midwifery: Operating as an unlicensed midwife was illegal and dangerous. The mother used deception—feigning ignorance to doctors—to protect herself from legal repercussions after a high-risk delivery.
• Generational Contrast: Chapter 3 introduces a stark contrast between the mother’s strict, respectable upbringing and Tara’s own unconventional, self-sufficient childhood, highlighting the mother’s rebellion against her parents’ values.
• Digital Resources: Participants were introduced to the “My Good School” YouTube channel and Happy Teacher blog, which provide timestamped notes for efficient review of past sessions.

Topics

Review of Last Session

The previous session covered Tara Westover’s survivalist upbringing and her mother’s transformation into a midwife.

Key themes included:

• Survivalist preparations (stockpiling, rifles).
• The mother’s journey to self-reliance through midwifery.
• The value of learning by doing over formal schooling.
• The importance of journaling for personal growth.

Digital Resource Tutorial

Sandeep Dutt demonstrated how to use the “My Good School” YouTube channel and Happy Teacher blog.

• YouTube Channel: Contains 723 videos, including session recordings with timestamped notes in the description.
• Benefit: Allows users to jump directly to specific topics, saving time.
• Accessibility: Subtitles can be translated into Hindi.
• Happy Teacher Blog: Serves as a public journal, publishing participant reflections (e.g., on Educated) to foster collaboration.

Reading: Chapter 2 - Midwifery & Government Interaction

Midwifery as Empowerment:

• The mother charged $500 per delivery, gaining financial independence.
• She invested in her skills, buying an oxygen tank and taking a suturing class to avoid hospital referrals.
• Strategic Government Engagement:
• She installed a phone by citing her husband’s own logic: a midwife needs a phone for emergencies.
• She secured birth certificates for her younger children, framing them as necessary for Luke to get a driver’s license and earn income.

The Birth Certificate Ordeal:

Securing Tara’s birth certificate was difficult due to conflicting birth dates from family and church records.

The process highlighted the family’s lack of official documentation and Tara’s unique perspective on identity.

High-Risk Delivery:

Tara’s first birth experience revealed the mother’s fear and the illegal nature of her work.

The mother rehearsed with Tara what to say if “feds” (federal agents) arrived: “I was asleep... I don’t know anything.”

After a high-risk delivery, the mother used deception to avoid suspicion from doctors, feigning ignorance to protect herself.

Reading: Chapter 3 - Generational Contrast

Mother’s Upbringing:

Tara’s mother, Faye, grew up in a highly respectable Mormon family.

Her mother (Tara’s grandmother) was a seamstress who enforced strict social norms to protect her daughters from the social contempt she had experienced.

Mother’s Rebellion:

Faye rebelled against this structured life by marrying Tara’s father, an unconventional man who ran a junkyard.

She rejected the “white picket fence” lifestyle, preferring a more self-sufficient existence.

Tara’s Perspective:

Tara saw her mother’s rebellion as a liberation from trivial concerns (e.g., choosing between white or cream shoes for church).

Tara preferred exploring the junkyard to attending church, highlighting the stark contrast between her life and her mother’s past.

Participant Feedback & Program Overview

• Sona Rao (St. Xavier’s) found the session “rejuvenating” and the book’s themes relatable.
• Sandeep Dutt outlined the Learning Forward program for St. Xavier’s:
• Teacher Training: A 3-day program (Oct 18–20) to implement Learning Forward’s methods.
• Sunday School: A reading program (10:30 AM–12:30 PM) for students.
• Retreats: An invitation-only prize for active participants; the next one is in November.

Next Steps

Brinda Ghosh:

Use the Happy Teacher blog for future session notes.

St. Xavier’s Participants:

Review the recording or notes from the previous session to catch up.

Attend the upcoming teacher training program (Oct 18–20).

Enrol students in the Sunday School program.

All Participants:

Continue reading Educated for the next session.

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