Saturday, January 17, 2026

Life is a Series of Moments

Masterclass:
Read together from The Courage To Be Disliked by Fumitake Koga and Ichiro Kishimi, discuss the chapter "Life is a series of moments," and complete the conversation between the Youth and the Philosopher.

Key Takeaways

  • Reject the "kinetic" life model (a linear path to a future goal) for an "energeal" one (finding fulfilment in the process itself).

  • Live in the "here and now" by shining a "bright spotlight" on each moment, which makes the past and future irrelevant distractions.

  • Assign your own meaning to life; it has no inherent purpose. The "guiding star" for this is the contribution to others.

  • Change yourself to change your world; it's a personal responsibility that requires courage to start, regardless of others' cooperation.

Topics

GSA & Learning Forward Updates

  • Sandeep Dutt reviewed the GSA website (schooleducation.com) to clarify the oorganisation'smission and programs.

  • Mission: Personal and social development across 10 attributes (e.g., identity, communication).

  • Core Belief: Schools should focus on service, skill, sport, and study.

  • Programs:

    • Teachers Academy: Saturday 3 PM sessions for school faculties.

      • Cost: ₹10,000 annual donation per school.

      • Capacity: Currently serving 6 schools; can accept 1–2 more.

      • Recent Session: "Ecological Wisdom" with Project FUEL.

    • Masterclass: Saturday, 5:30 PM book club.

    • My Good School: Sunday session.

    • Brewing Knowledge Fridays: Friday session on learning and assessments.

  • Resources:

    • YouTube Channel: Redesigned for more straightforward navigation.

    • Impact Study: Now live on the website.

    • Special Projects: Page updated with the Dune School Old Boys' Society.

Recap of Last Session

  • Shalini Gupta summarised key takeaJanuary 10the January 10 session:

    • True self-worth comes from contributing to the community, not from seeking recognition.

    • Disruptive behaviour, especially in children, often signals a need to be seen and heard.

    • Adults can normalise abnormal behaviour by seeking superiority.

    • Adlerian foundations for a healthy self: freedom, contribution, and belonging.

Chapter Discussion: "Life is a series of moments"

  • The discussion contrasted two views of life:

    • Kinetic Life (Linear): A path to a future destination (e.g., a mountaintop).

      • Problem: The majority of life becomes a "tentative" period en route to a goal, making happiness dependent on a future outcome.

    • Energeal Life (Moment-by-Moment): A series of complete moments lived in the "here and now."

      • Analogy: "Dancing"—the act itself is the goal, not a destination.

      • Principle: Each moment is complete and fulfilling on its own, regardless of the final outcome.

  • The "Bright Spotlight" Metaphor:

    • Focusing on the past or future creates a "dim twilight" that prevents earnest living.

    • A "bright spotlight" on the present moment makes the past and future irrelevant distractions.

  • Assigning Meaning:

    • Life has no inherent meaning; individuals must assign it themselves.

    • The "Guiding Star": Contribution to others.

      • This provides a compass for a free and happy life, independent of others' approval.

  • Personal Transformation:

    • The world changes when an individual changes.

    • Analogy: Putting on glasses for the first time reveals a clear, vivid world.

    • Adler's Advice: "Someone has to start... You should start. With no regard to whether others are cooperative or not."

Next Steps

  • All Participants:

    • Join the "My Good School" session on Sunday, January 18, featuring Karthik Bajoria.

    • Attend the final chapter reading (the afterword) on January 24, Tuesday, January 24.

  • Sandeep Dutt:

    • Host a reception at the book café on Monday, January 19 (5–7 PM) for Governing Council members and guests.

  • Khushi:

    • Invite Principal Srividya  Ma'am to the Masterclass session.

      Notes courtesy: Fathom AI

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