Hope and Friendship - Swabhi Parmar

Hope is essential in life because it not only gives you the strength to overcome the pain but also makes the journey for the future easier. Let’s not worry about the fact that today is bad. Hope keeps us telling that tomorrow will be better than this. When I’m hopeful for anything, I feel the sorrows and difficulties of today will soon end. Hope keeps us positive.

As you know, our mind has lots of effects on our actions. If your mind tells you to stay strong on a path and not to lose courage, you will do so. So, Hope gives a positive mind power.

Hope helps us to ignore the sufferings of the present. When we stay positive about our future and feel that we have to fight to win the problems, our capacity to succeed increases. Hope is a belief, so if you believe then definitely something good will happen. The intensity of this feeling can really change your present and future. 

Hope has the tendency to change negative into positive. If we understand that essence of Hope, it is always very sweet. It’s an inspiration to live life the best way we can. So make your Hope strong. Hope will give you the courage and inspiration to stick to your dream as long as you breathe. If you have a strong aspiration, Hope and faith, nothing can bring you down. It lets you aim at the sole purpose of your life. 

“Hope is a match in a dark tunnel, a moment of light, just enough to reveal the path ahead and ultimately the way out and on the other hand, friendship actually doesn’t fit into any definition. It’s a relationship that cannot be described in words. Friends are those who make you feel good about yourself, who will laugh with you and make you feel lighter. They are the ones who will be there for you during happiness and at times when you need them most. When the world turns back at you they will be there right by your side. 

The importance of friendship in our life is beyond any description. Everybody goes through some difficult phases in life. During those times you need a shoulder to cry on. Friends can give exactly that. They will be there to listen to your nonsense talks and still acknowledge whatever you are saying to lighten your heart. With friends, you laugh out loud which makes you energetic and healthy. It can help you to overcome depression and so helps in improving your mental health as well. Sometimes we are in doubt about our abilities and decisions. But friends will never doubt you. They will be there to encourage you to move forward in life. 

No matter how difficult a task may be to achieve, they will push you to overcome all the obstacles and accomplish that task. Our family loves us because we share blood. But friends love us without any such condition. They give us unconditional love without expecting anything in return. Whenever you need them they will be with you no matter what the situation is. They will always be there to support you. You will only get this type of love from your family. We share the most amazing relationship with our friends and the times spent with them become the most memorable ones in our lives. Friends are one of the valuable assets of life.

Friendship helps you build one another and can aid you in overcoming your fears and achieving the goals of your life. Many times, in life, there are some fears that stop people from striving for what they desire. Friends push you out of your comfort zone so you can learn new things. I personally feel that Hope and friendship are the two most eternal parts of every human being. These are not mere values but these are the reasons for which any person lives. Friendship and Hope are interconnected. When Hope pushes you forward from within then a friend also pushes you from outside and helps you to fight all the odds and come back as a winner.

Swabhi Parmar

The Fabindia School

spr4fab@gmail.com

Honesty and Respect - Richa Solanki

Honesty is one of the important assets for all of us. Honesty doesn’t come naturally, but it is an internal process of adopting it through a self point of view. It is the responsibility of educators to the guild and gives our children the benefit of an excellent character. Instead of angrily speaking with a child for dishonesty. It is important to let them know that they can count on each other to speak the truth, no matter how difficult it may be. It is essential for a child to know that once trust is broken, it is hard to get it back. So a clear statement should be given on honesty rather than punishment for immoral behaviour.

They should be motivated for their reliability and should be encouraged to tell the truth. 'Honesty is the best policy’ should be taught to children with high moral values. It will make a huge impact on society. An educator should make them understand that honesty is the key to success. Tolerance, patience, analysis, and trust are the best tools it can be used to help kids adopt honesty. You can help your child to correct their mistakes with forgiveness that can result in self-realisation and help them to take steps to correct their mistakes on their own. Parents and teachers should make children understand the difference between such lies and honesty by having a discussion when they are in need. 

When building trust through honesty, be prepared for the other person to share their honest thoughts about your work and how it affects them.  Students will not grow in an environment where the teacher oversteps their authority. And it is also important that students must also respond to what their teachers taught them and learning to listen is a part of learning  and self-respect involves respecting the beliefs of others. Students must understand the value of good manners and exercising good manners properly.

First, to become an honest person, you must be honest with yourself and with others also. And another thing is to learn to apologise and accepting responsibility for apologizing for mistake and wrongdoing. It makes you feel good from another's point of view. We should allow each other to have and express our own views, whether we agree with them or not because it shows respect for others views and it doesn't mean that we are always right. We must respect others decision also.

Richa Solanki

The Fabindia School