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Saturday, March 14, 2026

Why Negate Reward and Punishment?

Masterclass

To read from The Courage To Be Happy by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga, and explore Adlerian psychology’s views on the past, the present, and classroom management.

Key Takeaways

  • The Past Is a Narrative: The past is not a fixed reality but a story we construct in the present to align with our current goals and worldview.

  • Focus on “What Now?”: The “Triangular Column” model shifts focus from unproductive complaints (“That bad person,” “Poor me”) to the actionable question: “What should I do from now on?”

  • Classrooms Are Democracies: Treat classrooms as democratic nations where students are sovereign. Rules must be established by consensus, not dictated, to foster active observance over passive obedience.

  • Problem Behaviour Stems from Ignorance: Most problem behaviour is not malicious but stems from a lack of knowledge. The adult’s role is to teach with reason, not to punish with emotion.

Topics

The Past Is a Narrative

  • Adlerian psychology asserts that the past is a narrative we construct in the present to serve our current goals.

  • Example (Dog Bite): A man’s memory of a dog bite was initially a story of a “perilous world.” As his worldview shifted to a “safe world,” the memory expanded to include a stranger’s help, demonstrating how the present shapes the past.

  • Historical Parallel: History itself is a narrative rewritten by the victor to legitimise their power.

The “Triangular Column” Model

  • This model visualises the psyche, reframing past problems into actionable steps for the present.

  • Sides 1 & 2 (Visible): “That bad person” (blame) and “Poor me” (victimhood).

  • Side 3 (Hidden): “What should I do from now on?” (action).

  • Purpose: To shift focus from unproductive complaints to constructive, forward-looking action.

Classrooms as Democratic Nations

  • The classroom should be a democratic nation where students are sovereign citizens.

  • Teacher’s Role: Not a dictator, but a facilitator of consensus.

  • Rule-Making: Rules must be established by student consensus. This fosters active observance (“our rules”) over passive obedience (“their rules”).

  • Dictatorship Analogy: A teacher who dictates rules creates a “corrupted dictatorship” that invites student rebellion.

Why Negate Reward and Punishment?

  • Adlerian psychology argues against both rebuking and praising.

  • Rebuking: Ineffective because most problem behaviour stems from ignorance, not malice. The adult’s role is to teach with reason, not to punish with emotion.

  • Praising: Creates dependence on external validation, undermining a student’s intrinsic motivation and self-worth.

Next Steps

  • Sandeep Dutt: Bookmark for the next session on March 21.

  • Group: Discuss the “Five Stages of Problem Behaviour” in the next session.

FATHOM AI-generated notes, read with care.

Thursday, December 26, 2019

Helpful Icons: Love Learning Vs Hate Learning

Classrooms are places where stories originate. With every child, a story is associated which runs into the risk of being labelled as good or bad.

We want to quote a real story from the classroom which broke the barriers of being good or bad. A big bang complaint was sent for a student of grade 2 who was found making cross marks on the classroom walls. The complaint was 360 degree as the students, the staff and also the neighbouring class kids went on with great enthusiasm to show the problem that took place in the classroom.

In this great chaos, one sensible thing happened and that was connecting with the child. An Educator started discussing the mark on the wall with the student and to a great surprise the interesting part of the story emerged, wherein the child shared his action as a support for the teacher’s words to stop other children to make the shoe marks on the wall. This small story has a great meaning and must be happening in different forms and intensity across, however, how we address such situations in the school environment holds great importance.

Educators within the school need to be empathetic, compassionate, understanding, loving and receiving with great openness. Every time situations have to be dealt from need point of view and as soon as the need analysis is done we role-model respect, appreciate diversity, reflect the flexibility and become a solution seeker. Such environments will automatically transform the school and classroom environment to loving and caring spaces. The Initiators for this process has to be Educators. Only then we will be able to happily enjoy the process of learning.

- Helpful Icons, educators from The Iconic School Bhopal
Inspiration from Kavita Bhupta Ghosh, author Wanted backbencher last ranker teacher

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