Showing posts with label solace. Show all posts
Showing posts with label solace. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 20, 2026

The Open School, by Kartik, Founder, Driveway Devi

 


On a recent airport transfer, as I debated between reading my book or getting some work done on the laptop, I couldn’t help overhear stray bits of my Uber driver’s phone conversation. Things didn’t seem alright and I organically proceeded to ask him if something was the matter. 


Neither did I read a word of my book, nor did any work; like most of us I had assumed that in either activity, would be a judicious use of the time the longish drive would take – instead I ended up talking to the Uber driver for the entire hour and a quarter my intra-city journey lasted.


The minutes hardly called attention to themselves. Though that wasn’t the reward, that I’d been able to traverse a most unpleasant commute without glancing at my watch. Far from it. What this interaction did gift me, as I quickly realized settling into my seat aboard the flight, was the kind of insight, and knowledge, that years of academic study couldn’t have; compressed, authentic, from the horse’s mouth, in a fraction of the time!


This bounty of newly gathered wisdom around small-town Uttar Pradesh and migrant workforce in the national capital, their lives, struggles and modest triumphs, their hopes, fears, dreams and aspirations, their forsaken native lives, sacrificed family members, this gentleman’s wages and survival-mode existence, his ‘education’ that had falsified the promise of prosperity – each word out of his mouth encapsulated an India that I wasn’t ever a part of, and was unlikely to be – more significantly, his was a microcosm of a dismal epic-sized reality, one, astonishingly kept veiled, secret, a closely hidden & protected recipe that served and serviced only a waver-thin minority.


I digress, since this isn’t intended as a socio-political rant. That I’d gained so much, from such little time, and zero effort, got me to thinking. What I’d always known, practiced half my life then forgotten somewhere along my bigger journey, hit me like a ton of bricks. 


Wednesday, February 24, 2021

Humility and appreciation - Dynamic DGS

Humility is like a warm glove to our calloused hand of overconfidence and false pride, helping us to maintain self-control, to keep us rooted and grounded when we could go blind with our own success stories, remarkable achievements and much more. Humility to me is very important as it helps me to stay connected with my true self. It helps me to be better than before. It instils in me a sense of composure which makes me look at life positively. It is very essential to be humble at all times, especially when we are required to help one another without having a superiority complex. For example, when we, as educators, need to help our students, we need to remember to be humble enough to make our children comfortable in our presence so as to use our power of teaching to provide knowledge, but not intimidate them with our profile. Children idolize their teachers and it would truly help them to be humble as well with each other if they saw their teachers being the same. Humility strengthens relationships; it provides solace. 

How do we recognize humility? It is a belief that every human being is equally important and valuable and that we are no more or less than anyone else in the world. Some of my students and I had the opportunity to meet Dr Kiran Seth the founder of SPIC MACAY, at the 1st winter convention in Roorkee. A simple and humble person. We could not imagine that the person standing before us is a Padma Shri awardee. He came up to us and talked so affectionately that we felt we had known him for years. Expected him to talk about his achievements and how he had started SPIC MACAY. I was wrong. Instead of talking about himself, he spoke about how the youth can promote Indian cultural heritage and how we should work hard to make India proud. He was modest and unpretentious about his achievements.

Children learn by examples, and the best example was set by Dr Kiran. We could see his reflection in SPIC MACAY’s volunteers (mostly IIT students) who dedicated their time and energy to serving all the participants round the clock with smiling faces in a very humble way. A week's stay over there enlightened us. It was a way of life.

Dynamic DGS @ THE Doon Girls School, Dehradun - , Reena Gusain, Reah Sikand, Meenakshi Panwar, Shilpika Pandey, Rachna Bhardwaj and Sumali Devgan

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