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Monday, February 24, 2025

Reflection masterclass 2024- Shivangi Gupta

 

What makes a school?

I see school as a place where a community comes together to learn, collaborate and experience growth. It's like a mini-world where everyone plays a unique role. The admin and rules act as the bones, providing structure, while teachers and students bring it to life, like flesh and blood.

If we view the school as a place of work, learning, sharing, and conscious engagement, it becomes a dynamic space resembling the play of life. Each person's role in this play is in their hands, shaping the overall experience.

Considering this, I feel a sense of responsibility and excitement. It's like having a part to play in this mini version of life, contributing to the collective journey of knowledge and growth.

A Perspective on School as a Miniature World

I see school as a place where a community comes together to learncollaborate and experience growth. It's like a mini-world where everyone plays a unique role. The admin and rules act as the bones, providing structure, while teachers and students bring it to life, like flesh and blood.

If we view the school as a place of work, learning, sharing, and conscious engagement, it becomes a dynamic space resembling the play of life. Each person's role in this play is in their hands, shaping the overall experience.

Considering this, I feel a sense of responsibility and excitement. It's like having a part to play in this mini version of life, contributing to the collective journey of knowledge and growth.

Why Relationships matter?

Relationships are the threads that weave the fabric of our lives, each connection leaving an indelible mark on our journey. In the tapestry of my existence, relationships are not just moments shared but the essence of who I am. They are the echoes of laughter, the solace in silence, and the comfort in shared moments of authenticity. Through the highs and lows, relationships have been the compass guiding me, grounding me in a chaotic world. They illuminate the path to self-discovery, reminding me that life's beauty lies in the intricate dance of connections, forging bonds that shape the very core of my being.


War Vs Peace

The classroom mirrors the broader struggle between chaos and order, much like the contrast between war and peace. Within its walls, the teacher navigates the dynamic interplay between disruption and harmony, guiding students toward intellectual and emotional stability. Just as war signifies turmoil and destruction, the initial stages of learning often involve confusion and uncertainty. However, through structured lessons, thoughtful discussions, and engaging activities, the teacher fosters a peaceful environment where knowledge flourishes.

For example, in a history lesson on conflicts and resolutions, students may initially grapple with the complexities of battles and treaties. Yet, through analysis and debate, they come to understand the underlying causes of war and the importance of diplomatic resolutions. Similarly, in literature, a novel filled with conflict and moral dilemmas may seem overwhelming at first, but the teacher helps students unravel themes of reconciliation and justice, revealing the deeper message of peace beneath the surface.

The classroom, therefore, serves as a microcosm of the world, where the teacher’s role is to transform the turbulence of ignorance into the clarity of understanding. By fostering discipline, critical thinking, and empathy, the teacher leads students away from intellectual discord toward the serenity of enlightenment. Just as societies strive for peace after war, the teacher cultivates harmony from academic and personal struggles, shaping students into thoughtful, informed individuals ready to build a more peaceful future.


Right Vs Wrong

In the classroom, the concepts of right and wrong extend far beyond correct answers on a test. They shape a child’s moral development, decision-making, and understanding of responsibility. As a teacher, I am not just guiding students toward academic accuracy but also helping them develop integrity, empathy, and the ability to think critically about their choices.

Learning is a journey where mistakes are inevitable. When students get an answer wrong or make an error, it does not mean failure—it is an opportunity for growth. Encouraging them to learn from mistakes rather than fear them fosters resilience and a problem-solving mindset. A child who is afraid of being wrong may hesitate to participate, while one who understands that errors are part of learning will take risks and explore ideas more freely.

Beyond academics, teaching right and wrong in terms of behavior is just as important. Honesty, kindness, respect, and responsibility are values that shape a student’s character. In moments of conflict—whether it’s a disagreement between classmates or a choice between telling the truth or not—my role is to guide them toward understanding the impact of their actions. Rather than simply punishing wrongdoing, I aim to create opportunities for reflection, helping students recognize why making the right choice matters.

Ultimately, my classroom is a space where both right and wrong are part of the learning process. By fostering an environment where students feel safe to question, make mistakes, and reflect on their choices, I help them not only succeed academically but also grow into thoughtful, ethical individuals prepared to navigate the complexities of life.


Like Vs Unlike

In the classroom, differences in opinions, interests, and abilities are inevitable. As a teacher, I witness how the concepts of “like” and “unlike” shape student interactions, learning preferences, and even their self-perception. Some students naturally gravitate toward certain subjects, activities, or peers, while others struggle to find connection or interest.

When students “like” something—whether it be a subject, a teaching method, or a classroom activity—they engage wholeheartedly. Their enthusiasm fuels participation, creativity, and a desire to explore further. They ask questions, seek deeper understanding, and enjoy the process of learning. A child who loves storytelling, for instance, may immerse themselves in literature, while another who enjoys numbers may find joy in solving complex problems.

Conversely, when students encounter something they “unlike” or struggle to connect with, they may show reluctance, frustration, or disengagement. A dislike for a subject can stem from difficulty in understanding, lack of exposure, or negative past experiences. As a teacher, my role is not only to acknowledge these differences but also to bridge the gap—transforming "unlike" into "like" through encouragement, relevance, and creativity.

By making learning interactive, connecting lessons to real-life experiences, and celebrating small victories, I help students discover new interests and overcome biases toward subjects they once found unappealing. Encouraging students to embrace what is “unlike” helps them develop adaptability, resilience, and a growth mindset.

Ultimately, the classroom is a place where both “like” and “unlike” coexist, shaping a student’s learning journey. My goal is to guide them toward appreciating the unfamiliar, finding joy in new challenges, and realizing that learning—whether easy or difficult—is always a path to growth.


Affection Vs Rejection

A classroom is more than just a space for academic learning; it is a place where emotions shape the way students engage with their education. As a teacher, I have seen how affection and rejection play a crucial role in a child’s growth, self-esteem, and motivation to learn.

Affection in teaching goes beyond kindness—it is about creating a supportive and inclusive environment where every student feels valued and encouraged. When students experience warmth, patience, and understanding, they develop confidence in their abilities. A gentle word of encouragement, a smile, or an acknowledgment of effort can transform a hesitant learner into an eager one. Affection fosters trust, and in that trust, students find the courage to take risks, make mistakes, and grow.

On the other hand, rejection—whether intentional or unintentional—can create barriers to learning. A student who feels ignored, dismissed, or criticized too harshly may withdraw, fearing failure and losing interest in learning. Rejection can stem from comparisons, lack of encouragement, or the inability to meet expectations. When students feel that their efforts go unnoticed or that they are not capable enough, they may stop trying altogether.

As a teacher, my role is to balance expectations with empathy, discipline with encouragement, and corrections with motivation. Every student deserves to feel seen, heard, and valued. By choosing affection over rejection, I can help create a classroom where students not only learn but thrive—where they feel safe to explore, express, and embrace the joy of learning without fear.


Love Learning Vs Hate Learning

In every classroom, there exists a spectrum of attitudes toward learning—some students embrace it with enthusiasm, while others resist it with frustration. As a teacher, I witness the profound impact that mindset has on a child’s educational journey. Those who love learning approach challenges with curiosity, finding joy in discovery and growth. They see mistakes as stepping stones, engage actively in discussions, and seek knowledge beyond the textbook. Their passion fuels creativity, resilience, and a lifelong thirst for understanding.

Conversely, students who dislike learning often perceive it as a burden rather than an opportunity. They struggle with self-doubt, fear of failure, or disengagement, making the learning process a tedious experience. Some resist because they have faced repeated setbacks, while others may not see the relevance of what they are taught. As a teacher, my challenge is to bridge this gap—to transform resistance into acceptance and apathy into interest.

Creating an environment where every student feels encouraged, valued, and inspired is key to shifting attitudes. By making lessons interactive, connecting concepts to real life, and allowing students to explore topics through hands-on experiences, I strive to foster a love for learning. Encouragement, patience, and understanding help students overcome their fears and develop confidence in their abilities.

Ultimately, the classroom should not just be a place where knowledge is imparted but where the joy of learning is cultivated. When students learn to appreciate the process rather than just the result, the transition from “hate learning” to “love learning” becomes possible. My goal as a teacher is to guide them on this journey, helping them realize that learning is not just an obligation—it is a gateway to endless possibilities.

Shivangi Gupta

Sunbeam Annapurna 

Monday, July 26, 2021

Compassion - Bharti Rao

Compassion is a feeling of thoughtfulness. It is an emotion that is inborn in them. It is when we think about ourselves and others. You imbibe this value from your environment by seeing others and listening to others.
 
A compassionate person is influenced and influences others. We can identify compassionate people who are very emotional. They become upset when they see others in pain. Compassionate people understand others, think about others, lend a helping hand. If we are compassionate, we focus on how others feel without dismissing our own feelings. Situations, upbringing and environment, may also lead us away from compassion, so we need to be thoughtful and understanding.

Many times elders stop one to be compassionate by stopping them from doing small acts of kindness. Observing others who are not compassionate may also drive them away from being compassionate. In schools, it is a common sight where children show compassion in the classroom by sharing and showing acts of kindness. But in some situations, when groups come up, compassion is driven away. Then they start bullying others. Family affects one’s behaviour a lot. One learns values from families, peers, elders, and the environment. Many times children’s parents may not be compassionate, but children are encouraged by their friends or school, and they imbibe this value and become compassionate.

We should try to motivate others by going out of the way ourselves and help others; we need to be loving, caring and empathetic. The role of an adult is an important aspect to motivate students to be compassionate. Compassion brings in care, respect, love, kindness. Interaction, encouragement, collaboration, socialism, motivation, observation effects compassion a lot. Compassion is taught and learnt. Family, school, friends & environment churn compassionate people.

Bharti Rao
bro@fabindiaschools.in
The Fabindia School

Thursday, March 25, 2021

Humility and Appreciation - Tarang JMMS

Humility and Appreciation

The low sweet root from which all heavenly virtues shoot,  that's HUMILITY.

Humility is the quality of being humble. It is a quality of being humbly respectful of others. It is that self-respect that keeps us away from thinking too highly or too meanly of ourselves.

Humility makes us modest and always reminds us how far we have come in life and what more we can do. Humility is an important virtue or trait that every person should have.

Everyone deserves respect and a word of kindness, which has nothing to do with profession, age or gender. 

The value of humility should be taught to the children to learn to show humility and respect to every person they come across then, be it teachers, elders, classmates, or the helping staff. So, when they grow up and become something, they will remember all those people who had a hand in their success, from the teachers who inspired them to the helping staff who helped them and kept the school clean. They will learn to value everyone's contribution and appreciate their efforts.

Appreciation- This word is the most powerful word for motivating someone. If someone gets appreciated for a certain task, they always give their best in further tasks. 

Here is a story by a teacher - There was a boy in her class was really shy and reserved in nature. He never showed much interest in the studies. 

One day during a free period, the teacher noticed a rhythmic sound in her class; she looked here and there while everyone else was busy talking and playing; this boy was sitting in the corner and beating the table. She was quite amazed to see the way his hands were moving like he was playing the tabla. She started clapping for him when other students saw her; they also started cheering for him. The boy felt a sense of accomplishment and was happy how everyone appreciated him. The students then told the teacher that the boy plays the table whenever he gets free time. The teacher found his talent and had a conversation with the music teacher, and soon the child started taking tabla classes, and within a month, the child started playing the tabla in the school choir.

Getting appreciated is an amazing feeling that every person wants to experience. It is the greatest emotional need of a person. Being told you are appreciated is one of the most motivating, inspiring, empowering and encouraging things one can hear. 

When someone appreciates you, it means that the person believes in you, understands you and has recognised something valuable or maybe found your potentials which you had always underestimated.

When you are encouraged as a child, you grow up into an adult who has a sense of confidence.

Quite often, we underestimate the power of a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

Tarang JMMS@John Martyn Memorial School, Salangaon, Dehradun - Neelam Bhardwaj, Dolly Pharasi, Shalini Gurung

Thursday, May 21, 2020

Humility and Appreciation - Optimizers BHIS

The Power of Humility and Humble Appreciation

One of the most important understandings we come to gain, through our physical journey, is the lesson of humility and appreciation. We often talk about people being put in our lives for a reason, and there is always a lesson to be learned from them. They are there to help us to learn and grow.

There are many gifted students learning in our school. Some are especially challenged children, which makes the teachers’ knowledge of their own limits a matter for appreciation and encouragement. The story of ‘Rama’ a gifted child of Grade 6 and his shadow teacher taught us that by acting with humility, others learn to respect, follow, appreciate and want to be around us. This should describe the people we prefer to work with and for.

Rama loved everything about school. He always had a deep love for learning. For the shy child, the classroom was his safe space and his classmates showed the zeal of humility and appreciation. He was accompanied to school by his shadow teacher. He was loved by all his classmates. At times he would spit, hit and pulled at his fellow-students. But his friends never showed any frustration or annoyance to his behaviour. After all, they were mere sixth graders. During class, he answered and tried to share his opinion in his own way. Though indistinct, the answers made sense to the teacher, and she acknowledged them. Even the students applauded him.
The Power of Humility and Humble Appreciation

One day while the teacher was teaching, he got up, became aggressive and went out of the class. He began to bite at his hand and started banging on the glass door. There was a huge commotion in the class. All students were scared and moved close to the teacher. His shadow teacher tried to stop him from biting his own hand but he did not mellow down. The neighbouring class teacher informed the section head and his father was asked to come down. Soon, his father reached school and took him home.

After one week, Rama was accompanied by a new shadow teacher to the class. Being bold and humble, she was like a coach who guided his studies every day. His class teacher began to observe his shadow teacher very keenly. She found that, while the teachers taught, the shadow teacher went through the same concepts with him, using pictures. She made him write in his way by giving him second-hand support. She appreciated him by giving ‘chocolates’ which he liked most and that made him more enthusiastic about his work. At times she used to read stories for him which he liked very much. She shared her food with him, took him to the washroom and helped him in all the ways she possibly could. She ensured that his exercise books were filled in, work updated and submitted on time. On the other hand, his classmates' outward humility and inward appreciation was something that the teacher learnt every day.

This training continued for months and she started to teach him the basic lessons of humility like ‘saying sorry’ ‘thank you,’ etc. Slowly and steadily the teachers found changes in Rama’s habits. Before going to the washroom he learnt to say ‘excuse me’ and sought ‘permission’ from his teachers before starting on his lunch. Her humble attitude and constant appreciation were precisely an example of moral vitality and insight.

During the PTM when Rama’s parents came to meet the teachers, the shadow teacher was appreciated by his parents and teachers alike for her humble nature, willingness to help and patience in bringing a behavioural change in Rama. The qualities of humility and appreciation are fundamental in helping us be more effective leaders.

Optimizer @ Billabong High International School Thane.
- Madhubala Saji, Kalyani Chaudhari, Ajita Bhoir, Rupal Trivedi, Momita Banerjee, Kshama Rajgor, Sanket Patel.

Thursday, May 14, 2020

Responsibility & Cooperation - Optimizers BHIS

Raj, a young boy, was very intelligent and was always ready to help his friends. There was another boy named Smith, who struggled with his studies and scored poorly in his exams.
Due to his academic performance, Smith was made fun of by his classmates and this often demoralized him.

Co-operation
Raj disliked the behaviour of the others with regard to Smith and he wanted to do something to change it. Smith's parents were also worried about his education.

Raj hit upon a plan. He felt that if he could help Smith with his studies, the latter may fare better. So after, school Raj would visit Smith's house and to with him.

Raj had a belief that if he could help Smith and motivate him positively, he would surely progress. The good Samaritan also told his classmates not to bully Smith and encourage him. In addition, the class teacher also encouraged him to study hard with innovative teaching methods so that he felt an interest in studies.

After 15 days of efforts and cooperation from his classmates, Raj and the class teacher, Smith was truly prepared for his exams. He cleared his exams with flying colours. Smith's parents were immensely happy and highly appreciated everyone's efforts.

This was all Smith needed - a realisation that he could do it! Since then Smith became a responsible child and he understood that only hard work and determination can guarantee success in life. He was very thankful to his class teacher and Raj, as without their cooperation he would not have got a chance.
Be Responsible, Be Respectful
Optimizer @ Billabong High International School Thane
- Kshama Rajgor, Kalyani Chaudhari, Madhubala Saji, Momita Banerjee, Rupal Trivedi, Ajita Bhoir, Sanket Patel

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