“A small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it’s the only
thing that ever has.” – Margaret Mead
When we think
of the word thoughtful,
what comes to our mind? For many people, it’s probably something about being
good to others. For others, the word may invoke ideas about selflessness and
consideration. These are all common definitions of the word; but there is
another form of thoughtfulness that many people fail to consider: that of
reflective contemplation. When we are thoughtful, we are living in the present;
we are amplifying the meaning of our actions and interactions. Living
thoughtfully means living reflectively—attending to our thoughts, feelings,
words, and actions, and considering their impact on other people and on our own
future. Being thoughtful makes us more sensitive towards the feelings of other
beings.
Understanding is to be fully aware not only of the
meaning of something but also of its implications. It is to be compassionate
towards all people. We seek understanding in all our relationships, be it
personal or professional.
When the child enters a classroom, he wants his teacher to be understanding, patient and
empathetic towards him. Then only a child feels safe and starts opening up to
his surroundings. A teacher should have an understanding of the background
of the child and his weak areas to help him reach his potential. A thoughtful
teacher can bring a great impact on a child’s life.Thoughtfulness
and understanding both make a person mature and responsible towards others. We
contemplate our actions and try to become a better version of ourselves. By
being understanding, we become positive in our outlook as we understand not
only ourselves but also others. We think before we speak or doing any action.
We try not to hurt others in any way. Thus, both these values make us more
compassionate and empathetic.
- Ritika Tyagi, The Doon Girls' School, Dehradun
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