Pooja Chauhan, Sunbeam School Ballia
Saturday, June 27, 2026
Reading about Fear and Courage
Founder of Good Schools Alliance, author, educator, and adventurer empowering children to discover the magic of literature.
Overcoming Fear & Stage Fright and discovering Leadership
Learning Forward Saturday
To discuss overcoming fear and leadership using the book Wanted Back-bencher & Last-ranker Teacher.
Key Takeaways
Overcoming Fear: Roma’s “So what?” mantra and sharing her own GD (Ground Discussion) experience helped students overcome stage fright, proving that vulnerability and practical strategies are effective teaching tools.
Leadership Defined: Brainstorming defined leadership as vision, determination, and the ability to turn adversity into opportunity. Examples such as Richard Branson (dyslexia) and Thomas Edison (1,000 failures) show that success is built on persistence.
Teaching Philosophy: The core lesson is “every child must succeed.” Teaching is about helping all students—the “tortoise” and the “hare”—reach the finish line, not just focusing on high-achievers.
Logistics Update: The session time changes to 3:30 PM starting July 4. The new, simpler domain
DilJeeto.comNow links directly to the Teachers Academy website.
Topics
Overcoming Fear & Stage Fright
Problem: Students in the Wanted Backbencher were paralysed by stage fright, fearing a repeat of a past assembly disaster in which they failed to use memorised material.
Solution: Teacher Roma used a multi-pronged approach:
Vulnerability: Shared her own experience of overcoming fear in a high-stakes group discussion (GD) to humanise the challenge.
Practical Strategy: Replaced memorisation with point-based speaking, which proved more effective for the students.
Empowerment: Introduced the “So what?” mantra to reframe mistakes and audience judgment, helping students manage anxiety.
Defining Leadership Through Brainstorming
Roma led a brainstorming session to define leadership qualities, moving from abstract concepts to concrete examples.
Key Qualities Identified:
Vision and drive
Being a “people person”
Positivity and motivation
Initiating change
Relentless pursuit of goals
Transforming difficulties into opportunities
Inspiring Examples Discussed:
Richard Branson: Overcame dyslexia to build a business empire, demonstrating the power of personality and persistence.
Bethany Hamilton: Returned to surfing after a shark attack at 13, exemplifying extreme determination.
Thomas Edison: His 1,000 “failures” before the light bulb were reframed as productive learning, showing that leaders are motivated by setbacks.
Dhirubhai Ambani: A “rags-to-riches” story showing how to convert adversity into opportunity.
The Assembly Presentation & Its Lessons
The class’s presentation on leadership was a success, with students using their new strategies effectively.
Key Moments:
Jeevan: Opened with humour and questions, proving to be a natural communicator.
Supriya: Stumbled but recovered using the “So what?” mantra, demonstrating resilience.
Student Initiative: The students surprised a critical teacher (Sumita) by responding to her challenge and concluding with a powerful Gandhi quote on collaboration, reinforcing the session’s themes.
The Power of Reflection & The Teachers Academy
A new Teachers Academy video was shown to emphasise the importance of reflection.
Video Message: Reading and reflection are essential for independent thought, preventing individuals from being swept away by the “tsunami” of online information.
Participant Reflections:
Sneha: Reading enables deep reflection, leading to personal and societal improvement.
Manisha: Reflection aligns with Social Emotional Learning (SEL), fostering self-awareness and better decision-making.
Website Update: The Teachers Academy has a new, simpler domain:
DilJeeto.com.
Next Steps
All Participants:
Submit reflections, focusing on the theme “every child must succeed.”
Note the new session time: 3:30 PM starting July 4.
Sneha:
Create and share a poster announcing the time change to 3:30 PM.
Prepare the next chapter, “Heart vs. Mind,” for the July 4 session
Founder of Good Schools Alliance, author, educator, and adventurer empowering children to discover the magic of literature.
Sunday, June 21, 2026
Copy or Not to Copy & Fear vs Courage
Learning Forward Saturday
Continue reading “Wanted Back-bencher and Last-ranker Teacher” and discuss its themes.
Key Takeaways
Roma’s Strategy: To motivate her difficult class for a presentation, Roma shared her own past struggles with stage fright and low confidence. This humanised her, building trust and showing that overcoming fear is possible.
Cheating Dilemma: A student’s detailed advice on how to cheat effectively prompted a discussion on integrity, highlighted by Roma’s decision to refuse a leaked exam paper in high school.
Public Speaking as a Skill: Roma reframed the upcoming assembly as a crucial opportunity to develop critical thinking, verbal skills, and confidence, directly addressing students’ anxieties.
The “Air Hostess” Experiment: To cure her stage fright, Roma applied for an air hostess job. She passed the interview by mastering facts, proving that deep knowledge, not a memorised script, is the key to confident communication.
Topics
Context: “Wanted Back-bencher and Last-ranker Teacher” by Kavita Ghosh
The group is reading a book about Roma, an unconventional teacher who joined the profession for a certification, not by choice.
The book’s title comes from a school advertisement, reflecting Roma’s non-traditional background.
Chapter: To Copy or Not to Copy
During exams, students asked if Roma ever cheated.
Roma admitted to being caught once, prompting a student (Jeevan) to offer detailed advice on how to cheat effectively.
The Dilemma: Roma’s best friend, Rubina, offered her a leaked Class 12 board exam paper.
The Decision: Roma refused to look at the paper, choosing integrity over a guaranteed high score.
The Outcome: She never regretted the decision, finding deep satisfaction in earning her marks honestly.
Invigilation Tactic: Roma used a non-confrontational approach during an exam, returning dropped papers to students without accusation.
Rationale: This gave students the “benefit of the doubt” while subtly signalling she was aware of their attempts to cheat.
Chapter: Fear vs Courage
Staff Room Discussion: A colleague (Sumita) expressed doubt that Roma’s difficult class could deliver a successful assembly presentation.
Topic: “A Leader knows the Way, Goes the Way, and Shows the Way” (John C. Maxwell).
Student Anxiety: Roma’s students were anxious, recalling a “disastrous” presentation last year that left them feeling ridiculed and humiliated.
Roma’s Framing: Roma reframed public speaking as a vital life skill for:
Developing critical thinking
Fine-tuning verbal and non-verbal skills
Overcoming stage fright
Roma’s Personal Story: To build trust, Roma shared her own history of stage fright.
The Failure: At 15, she froze during an inter-school debate, unable to recall her prepared speech.
The Experiment: To overcome this, she applied for an air hostess job.
Method: She mastered all facts about the airline and aviation industry.
Result: She passed the interview, proving that deep knowledge, not a memorised script, builds confidence.
The Insight: Public speaking is about connecting with people using relevant information, not just delivering a speech.
Arctic Air Interview: Roma later faced a group discussion (GD) for a corporate internship.
Topic: “Women deprive men of jobs.”
Challenge: She had to navigate a competitive environment with 35 other applicants, including university debaters.
Next Steps
Participants: Reflect on personal experiences with public speaking or integrity and share them with the group.
Group: Meet next Saturday at the same time to continue reading.
Group: Note the time change for the session after schools reopen in July.
Saturday, May 9, 2026
Understanding the Teen Brain
Learning Forward Saturday
Discussing effective strategies for managing adolescent peer pressure and behaviour. Reading from the book Wanted Back-bencher and Last-ranker Teacher by Kavita Ghosh.
Key Takeaways
Redirect Peer Influence: The goal is to redirect peer influence toward positive outcomes, not to eliminate it. This leverages the group dynamic as a powerful tool for good.
Build Trust: A teacher’s trust is a more powerful motivator than punishment. Students will protect a trusted teacher from disappointment, creating a stronger foundation for discipline.
Understand the Teen Brain: Teenagers are hardwired for risk-taking. Their logical reasoning develops by age 15, but impulse control and resistance to peer pressure don’t mature until age 25.
Use “Gentle but Firm” Tactics: Effective discipline requires firmness without anger. Teacher Roma’s strategy of linking a class privilege (the football match) to the task of finding a hidden shoe successfully unified the group in resolving an issue.
Topics
The Problem: Adolescent Peer Dynamics
Social Grouping: By 9th grade, students form defined groups for survival, as isolation makes them targets for bullying.
Nerds: Academic students.
Cool Kids: Popular students.
Goons/Troublemakers: Instigate mischief but also protect their group.
Vulnerability of Isolated Students: Students outside a group are blamed for everything, excluded from activities, and lack support.
Example: Ankush, a shy student, was bullied and excluded from group projects.
Peer Loyalty & Fear: Students protect group members from consequences, fearing retribution if they inform on others.
Example: Shreyas shielded his attackers (Romy, Jeevan, Ajit) after being dragged by the neck.
The Solution: Teacher Roma’s Approach
Context: Roma’s class was delaying a football match to hide a shoe Romy had hidden after pouring water on it.
Strategy: Roma used the class’s desire to watch the match as leverage.
Tactic: She refused to let the class leave until the shoe was found, threatening to make them study British rule instead.
Outcome: The class, including the goalkeeper, unified to find the shoe and identify Antony as the culprit.
Principle: This demonstrates “gentle but firm” discipline, using leverage to redirect group energy toward a positive resolution.
The Rationale: Understanding the Teen Brain
Context: A parent meeting was held after four students (Jeevan, Ajit, Shreyas, and Antony) were caught at a hookah bar.
Scientific Explanation (from Uttara):
Source: Lorenz Tainberg’s Risk-Taking in Adolescence.
Finding: Teenagers are hardwired for risk-taking because their brains are still developing.
Logical reasoning → matures by age 15.
Impulse control & peer resistance → mature by age 25.
Implication: The brain’s emotion-regulating area becomes more sensitive during puberty, reducing risk analysis.
Conclusion: Punishment is ineffective. The solution is open dialogue and counselling to build adult relationships.
The Outcome: The Power of Trust
Key Insight: Jeevan’s father revealed his son’s first concern was that Roma would be “let down.”
Significance: This shows that Roma had built a relationship of trust in which students feared disappointing her more than punishment.
Principle: This trust is the bedrock of effective discipline, enabling teachers to guide students toward positive behaviour.
Next Steps
Saturday, March 8, 2025
The Scottish Incubator: Masterclass Saturday March 08, 2025
Q1. "There is more in us than we know. If we can be made to see it, perhaps for the rest of our lives, we will be unwilling to settle for less" – Kurt Hahn.
Actual growth often comes from overcoming one's own doubts, fears, and limitations rather than external challenges. As educators, how can we create environments that empower students to push past self-imposed barriers and reach their full potential?
Q2. Imagine you are designing a school curriculum where students learn as much outside the classroom as inside. What real-world experiences would you incorporate to develop resilience and leadership skills in students?
Q3. A student in your class consistently misses deadlines and avoids responsibilities. At Gordonstoun, students are expected to self-report mistakes and take corrective actions. Instead of punishment, how would you create a system that encourages students to take accountability for their actions?
Q4. Hahn advocated for placing students in controlled, challenging situations to build resilience. How can we design safe yet challenging learning experiences that prepare students for real-world problem-solving?
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