Courage and Patience - Sandeep Singh

Courage is nothing but being bold and brave. Not many people have the courage to face problems.

Courage not only means being brave and bold but it also means to speak with the public bravely without any fear. Each one of us should have courage. So, it will be useful for them to do things without fear like giving a speech in front of a large mass of people, doing social services, talking to someone, etc. Hence, being shy and quiet and also nervous to do anything is not going to help you. Courage is something that is essential and very important in life.

 Courage does not mean merely physical bravery; it means also the moral strength which enables a man to do the right thing. Physical courage is good and useful, as it helps man to overcome difficulties, bear hardships, and do laborious work, but moral courage is a higher form of courage and is much nobler. A moral coward will not do the right thing because he is afraid of the ridicule of others. It is easy to say ‘yes’ to everything, but it requires a very strong mind to say ‘no,’ when one is really convinced that the thing is wrong.

Patience is a wonderful tool for solving the problem in our life. Patience means to keep on walking towards your destination. There are two similar words ‘Patience’ and ‘Patient’ but both word meanings are very different. Patience means continuously doing your work calmly and peacefully, and patient means a person who is not able to do anything. There is a little difference between patience and patience, a person who is working in an adverse condition slowly and peacefully. That person has patience but a person who is looking only for a good time is called the patient. Our life is like an insurance policy. I'm an insurance policy. We invest our money in the form of little amounts and after some years we get a lot of money. Similarly in our life, we do much work in a day like yoga, learning etc. and we are benefitted only because of patience. 

So wear the patience in your personality and keep on focusing on your destination and you will surely reach your goal. The importance of patience should be realized by every individual. Patience in life can make them reach out for the stars. With patience, you can avoid making hasty decisions. Life is not about living in the future or in the past. Life is about accepting the present moment. To achieve your dreams, you must have the zeal to overcome challenges and the power to overcome roadblocks comes only from patience. 

Sandeep Singh
The Fabindia School

Courage And Patience - Parivartan SHS

Quiet Strength

This is a story about Dave, a new student who had recently been admitted to the 6^th grade. He was a good student - polite, sincere and very hardworking. His good etiquette and demeanour always won him favour among his teachers.

Adjusting to the new school wasn’t too difficult for him, he immediately got used to the environment of his new school. He started excelling all of his classes and also in other extra co- curricular activities; all his teachers tagged him as “the ideal student”.

Some of his classmates didn’t like this too much, they were jealous of him and were driven to prejudice, so they decided to take the matter in their own hand. Some boys started ignoring him while others decided to bully him.

They would throw all sorts of garbage at him whenever he would walk past them, like wrappers, pencil dust, leftover, etc. They used to call him by his nickname and spread many false rumours about him.

Dave, being the polite boy, decided not to react based on their actions, he thought that by pretending not to be offended, they would eventually get fed up and stop, but the bullying got worse day by day.  In a few months time, Dave became more quiet and timid. His class performance declined tremendously and he started becoming more reclusive.

It was in one of those days, towards the end of that academic year that Dave had had enough of the other boy’s tactics. He finally gathered some courage and went to a teacher. The teacher immediately consoled him regarding his situation and assured him that strict action will be taken against those boys.

“If you would have come to me sooner”, the teachers told Dave calmly, “ So much of damage could have been prevented.”

Dave agreed, “Yes, I realize it now. I should have been bolder and come to you sooner. I am sorry, sir.”

The teacher patted his shoulder saying, “I am pleased that you did come to me finally. Well done, Dave! You have been really strong and patient. You learned an important lesson today, utilize it in the future.”

After this incident, Dave progressed on to become a good student and a good individual.

Enduring Barriers

When Rohan was offered a new job as a teacher in one of the states he had always wished to work in, he couldn’t deny, he just decided to accept the post. Once he had arrived at the designated place, he realized how much of a struggle he would have to face in that area, especially regarding the language barrier. At the school too, the students couldn’t speak or understand much English or Hindi, they only understood more of their local dialect. This further created a wide furrow between him and his students.

The first day, he tried teaching them using many diagrams but the students got distracted midway and started disrupting the class. Finally, Rohan decided to take up coaching lessons for the local dialect.

It was a big task and a huge struggle for him to re-learn something completely different. He would get easily confused and made many mistakes, even after he started using local dialects in his classes to explain a few things. The students would frequently break out in peals of laughter whenever he made any mistake, disturbing the overall atmosphere and the quiet ambience of the class.

His friends and family back at the home would regularly suggest him to leave the job and return back home, but he was determined and prepared to complete his task.

Although it took him many months, Rohan was patient and hard-working and soon his students also recognized these qualities in him, and started paying more attention to his classes and the lesson being taught at hand.

By the end of the year, Rohan was greatly appreciated by his students and also his colleagues. He was admired for his hard work, dedication, and patience. He inspired many young minds to follow the path of patience, and it eventually led him to win the “Best Teacher” award.

- Anand Acharya <hianand2008@gmail.com> for Parivartan at Sacred Heart School Siliguri.