Reflection from the Master Class of 6th Dec 2025

It's important to maintain clear personal boundaries — whether at work, at home, or in any other space. Many confrontations and arguments, especially with children or students, can be avoided when elders refrain from imposing their own goals under the pretext of "it's for your good." Respecting individual choices and not intruding into their lives leads to healthier, more harmonious relationships.

We must also learn to untangle complicated situations with fresh thinking, just as the Gordian Knot was resolved with a new approach. And perhaps the most valuable lesson of all: don't fall into the trap of trying to please everyone — because in the end, the only person who ends up unhappy is YOU!!.

Shalini Gupta

Breaking Free from Others' Expectations

Often, when we think about making a choice for ourselves—something we genuinely want—we suddenly pause. A voice inside whispers: "What will others think?"

This hesitation is not because our choice is wrong, but because we unknowingly begin doing someone else's task.

According to Adlerian theory, task separation is crucial. Our responsibility is to make choices aligned with our values and growth; what others think is their task, not ours. When we stop mixing these, we free ourselves to choose authentically.

This idea also connects to the concept of the Gordian Knot—instead of getting tangled in unnecessary complications (like worrying about judgments), we must cut through the knot and move forward with clarity.

Another powerful insight is not attaching ourselves to outcomes. When we tie our happiness to rewards, results, or praise, the joy of the journey disappears. But when we focus on the work itself—the effort, learning, and growth—the experience becomes meaningful.

The Bhagavad Gita beautifully echoes the same wisdom:

“कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन”

Do your duty, without attachment to the fruits.

Shalu Sharma 

Sunbeam English School, Bhagwanpur 

Read And Lead book reading sessions are hosted on Saturday, the 6th of December 2025, at 5:30 PM, by the Learning Forward India Foundation on Zoom

Unity and Caring - Welham Boys' School

Unity and Caring amongst students are essential for creating a positive learning environment. When

students feel connected and have a sense of belonging, they are more likely to be engaged and motivated in their studies. It also promotes empathy and compassion, which can help reduce bullying and other negative behaviours. Encouraging students to work together and support one another can foster a spirit of cooperation and teamwork. This can be achieved through peer mentoring, group projects, and community service. By prioritizing unity and caring, students can develop strong relationships with their peers, feel valued and supported, and ultimately thrive academically.

Exercise: Human Knot

Ask students to stand in a circle and hold hands with two people not standing next to them. Instruct the students to move around and untangle the knot without letting go of each other's hands. Encourage them to communicate with each other, work together, and be patient until the knot is

untangled.

Observations:

a) Initial Responses: At the start of the exercise, some students may feel hesitant or unsure about holding hands with people they don't know well. They may also need help approaching the problem of untangling the knot.

b) Contribution: As the teacher or facilitator, you can provide guidance and encouragement throughout the exercise. You can remind the students to communicate effectively, work together, and stay patient. You can also offer suggestions and help to keep the movement moving along.

c) Impact on Students: The Human Knot exercise can positively impact students in several ways. Firstly, it promotes teamwork and collaboration, as students need to work together to solve problems. It also encourages communication and trust-building, as students must rely on each other to untangle the knot. Finally, the exercise can help to build a sense of unity and caring as students come together to achieve a common goal.

d)Takeaways: Some possible takeaways from the Human Knot exercise include:

The importance of communication and teamwork in achieving a goal.
The value of patience and perseverance in difficult situations.
The benefits of building trust and working together towards a common purpose.
The idea is that unity and caring can be fostered through shared experiences and challenges.

Incident: An incident took place amongst the students that can be seen as a learning or takeaway

from this exercise.

While playing soccer, one kid (let's call him kid 1) kicked the ball a little too hard, and another kid (let's call him kid 2) ended up hurting his arm. Kid 1 took Kid 2 to the hospital, and the arm was fractured. Kid 2's grandparents had come to take him for medical leave, and kid 1, along with some other friends, helped him pack, change and carry all his stuff for him. The grandparents were overwhelmed to see his peers' caring, united and helpful nature.

- Neelima Parmar, Monika Gupta and Vandana Sahay

Welham Boys’ School