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Quality and Love - Dolly Pharsi
Quality and Love - Sweta Thapli
Quality
Quality is the characteristic that something or someone has. It refers to how good someone or something is in comparison to others.
When we talk of people, quality refers to the attribute or characteristics that they possess.
Case-I- A student who does a shoddy job with classwork and homework.
We can deal with such students by:
Finding out the reason- As a teacher, I will try to find out the reason that why the child is not performing well with homework or classwork. Maybe the child is going through some trauma or maybe he is facing some problem at his home.
Praise their work and effort- We can appreciate another child in the classroom who are doing good with their work. Seeing everyone getting appreciated the child will focus on his study and he will be able to do his homework and classwork properly.
We can also mention their academic achievements to the other teachers and also to the students.
Encourage the child- Encouraging a child will help them to achieve good results. We should always be available to our students for their questions and concern as teachers.
- Individual time- Spending individual time with the students help them to understand things properly and easily. This will help the teacher to get to know the child better.
Limited work- We should not give plenty of work to the students, this loses the interest of the students in doing things. We should give them less work so everyone can do it without any difficulty.
Love
"Love yourself first and everything falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world." - Lucille Ball
Love is a strong feeling that you have when you like something very much. It is the feeling of liking a friend or any person in your family.
School is the place or extent to which students feel personally accepted, respected, included and supported by others in the school environment.
It is the psychological feeling of attachment that makes the students want to go to school every day.
Cave-II Two underage students in a romantic relationship.
We can deal with this situation by:
Not scolding them for things rather explaining to them that it is the age where you feel attached to someone. But that is not love it's just an attachment. Like:- you love dogs, chocolates, family and friends. You are attached to them.
We can have an individual talk with both of them.
We can have a discussion with the parents.
Counselling can be done to both and explaining to them that at this age you must focus on your studies and your career.
Explaining to them the importance and value of their time and their future.
There's a famous saying by Buddha:
When you like a flower you pluck it, but when you love a flower you water it daily...
-Sweta Thapli@JMMS, John Martyn Memorial School, Salangaon, Dehradun
Quality and love- Manmohan Kaur
Quality
1. A student who does a shoddy job with classwork and homework.
A) What, according to you, are the most important things to be kept in mind when dealing with such a case?
Ans. In my experience, this has been a widespread occurrence in every classroom. The first thing a teacher should keep in mind is that not all students function in the same way. Some grasp faster than others, while others do not pay much attention to their studies. Thus, every student requires personalized attention. This should be done with ample patience and tact.
Another fact that a teacher must not overlook is the environment provided to the student. A healthy environment will reflect on the students’ performance. This includes the classroom as well as the domestic environment. Parents of most of our students work jobs with long working hours and/or are uneducated. To add to it, intrafamily dynamics may also affect the overall mental health of the students. Hence, the teacher should be mindful of these factors.
B) Give an account of how you would approach the situation?
Ans. Taking the above-mentioned factors into account, I would take the following steps to deal with such a situation:
1. Firstly, I would lessen the amount of daily classwork and focus more on explaining to them the concepts of the study material.
2. I would identify their friends in class and have the students in question sit with them to share and solve each other's problems together.
3. Offering positive remarks, such as ‘Good work’, ‘Well done, ‘Excellent’, ‘Good Going’, ‘Keep it up’ etc., for any progress made can boost their morale.
4. Additionally, exhibiting their work on display boards would motivate them to work harder to seek their peers' admiration.
5. Keeping a check on the classroom environment is a must. I would look out for problematic behaviours among students, such as bullying, and school them about its effects.
6. Every month, an interactive session with their (students in question) parents shall be scheduled to update them on their ward(s) performance and assess the parents' attitude towards academics.
7. I would also ensure that the students know that they can contact their teachers after school hours. We as teachers can organise after-school handwriting improvement classes,doubt-clearance sessions or any other activity as per the students' needs.
8. If the students are struggling financially, I would provide them with school supplies such as notebooks, pencils, pens, etc.
9. It has been observed that students perform better when their parents take an active interest in academics. Hence, this is what I would aim to achieve with the parents.
10. Lastly, to let the students live a healthy childhood and enjoy other interests, I would assign them the least amount of homework. This would be crucial in preventing them from losing interest in their studies.
Love
2) Two underage students in a romantic relationship.
Ans. Romance is a kind of relationship between two people who are in love with each other. While the students at our school are pretty young, they are not aware of the concept of love.
Yet, in the many years, I have taught, I have not come across any two underage students in a romantic relationship. They experience love in all other ways. Even so, if I'm ever faced with such a situation, I would explain to them the meaning of romantic love. I would give them instances of all forms of love around them, for example, parental love, familial bonds and sibling affection. This would be necessary to make them understand that other than the bonds we are born into, choosing the romantic relationships one wants to commit to requires good decision-making skills, which comes with experience that the young students lack. It would also be beneficial to desensitize conservative Indian parents regarding this. Counselling them regarding their children's puberty in advance would give them ample time to prepare for their children's expected adolescent behaviour, including dating. This will help ensure the child's healthy growth in the most important years of their lives and build strong relationships with their own parents.
It is important to note that being in a romantic relationship is nothing to be looked down upon but rather encouraged. However, it should be so only when the individuals are mature enough to think and consent for themselves. Thus, to conclude, this is how I would handle the situation in question.
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- Manmohan Kaur@JMMS, John Martyn Memorial School, Salangaon, Dehradun
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