Courage and Patience - Preeti Mahajan

A Fearful Student

Observation 

I was teaching English in class 6. The children were new to the senior wing and were trying to adjust to the new environment. One boy used to occupy the last seat always. He never made any attempt to answer the questions. His reading skills were also poor, and when talking to teachers, he used to stammer.

Action taken 

The child was handled politely and told that all the teachers were there to assist and guide him. They are not to be scared of. His classmates were sensitized to help him overcome his fears and apprehensions. He was given positive reinforcement quite often. After a few weeks, a good change was noticed.

My advice to the educators

1. Observe the child's unusual behaviour for at least one week 

2. Establish a good rapport with the child.

3. Talk to him and allow him to open up.

4. Sensitize his classmates about his fears and apprehensions.

5. Make the classroom environment happy and comfortable.

6. If the need arises, talk to the parents.

7. Scolding and snubbing are a complete no-no for such children.

8. Friendliness and politeness can do wonders to make a fearful child a confident one.

An impatient student

Observation

I noticed a child in class 7 who exhibited fidgety and restless behaviour. He never waited for his turn to

answer the questions. He did not allow others to speak. During recess time, he also pushed others to make his way to the canteen.

Action taken

After observing him for a few days, I approached and counselled him for the misbehaviour. He was told about the invaluable virtual of patience in our life by giving examples. Regular follow-up was done to check his mannerism. In about a month, a positive change was noticed in his behaviour.

My advice to the educators

1. Observe the child's behaviour for at least one week.

2. If the child exhibits impatient behaviour or restless attitude, try to know the reason

3. Counsel him and state the disadvantages of being impatient in life.

4. Give him some extra work to occupy him.

5. Mind games and puzzles can also be employed.

6. Most importantly, don't lose your own patience while handling an impatient child.

Preeti Mahajan
Ahlcon Public School 

Humility - Manisha Deora

Courtesy: fordhaminstitute.com

Humility is the state of being humble. It is a virtue. It is the quality of keeping one’s self under control. It is the opposite of being proud. A person who possesses this quality is humble and meek. A humble person is the master of himself. He is not stubborn. He is ready to accept other people’s advice and learn from their experience. He is not annoyed with anybody. A proud person gets angry easily when something offends him. 

A humble person does not get angry easily. He admits his mistakes and shortcomings politely. A proud person does not admit his faults easily. He gets annoyed and blames others for his own mistakes. A proud person is stubborn and angry. He does not value another person’s suggestions and ideas. We must make our children humble in life because it spreads harmony among people. Humility makes a person more sensitive to understand other situations. So first we have to be humble towards children if we want them to be humble with others.

Courtesy Source: 

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/

Manisha Deora

The Fabindia School

mde@fabindiaschools.in