Showing posts with label truthful. Show all posts
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Tuesday, May 12, 2020

Honesty and Respect - Sharmila Vijayvargi

In simple words, honesty means being truthful to oneself and everyone. Respect means the way of treating others. Both these values are essential in all kinds of relationships and it becomes a part of every individual's.life. Coming to the life of an educator, who shares the longest time with any child, the two values, honesty and respect play a major role in the growth and development of a child.

Every child needs to be explained the meaning of these two words since the beginning. Being honest will help the child to raise his voice against any wrong thing happening around him. Further, the child should also be explained that if he doesn't like someone talking to him rudely with disrespect then, he should also not reciprocate the same as respect is a two-way quality: what you give is what you get. Educators should explain to the students that honesty brings respect and rewards. Being honest and respectful towards others and himself are qualities of a successful leader.

Sharmila Vijayvargi
The Fabindia School

Honesty and Respect - Kavitha Devda

Honesty means being truthful. It is very important, to be honest at all times. Telling lies does
not get you anywhere except in more trouble. Honesty builds trusts. When someone lies it means the trust is broken. Once the trust is broken it is very hard to get it back. Being yourself means you accept yourself for who you are and by being an honest person, people will believe you and trust you. When we make some mistakes, we should accept it. Making mistakes always helps us to learn and correct our mistakes.

Honesty is always appreciated by everyone. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. An Honest person shows good behaviour, always follows rules and regulations, maintains discipline, speaks the truth, and is punctual. An honest person is trustworthy as he always trends to speak the truth. Honesty helps in developing good attributes like kindness, discipline, truthfulness, moral integrity and more.

Respect begins with listening. Listening to what another person has to say is a basic way to respect them. Until you listen to another person’s concerns, you will not know who they are and what’s important to them. Life on earth is about serving others. In fact, our professions, our careers, and our jobs should revolve around a desire to serve others. We can serve without being kind. But it’s very difficult to be kind without serving. Kindness is an expression of respect. 

Respect for the fact that someone else is simply in need. We have all been in need. And what a relief it was when someone showed us kindness. Kindness is a tangible way of showing respect. Respect doesn’t always require thankfulness. But it often does. It’s just another way we show respect. It’s just another way that we feel respected. Everyone wants respect. Everyone should show respect. So hopefully everyone will receive the respect they’re due, and they’ll grant the respect due to others.

Kavitha Devda
The Fabindia School

Sunday, May 10, 2020

Honesty and Respect - Punita Chouhan

Honesty is being sincere, truthful and frank. It helps us to be trustworthy and get lots of respect in life because honest people are really trusted by others. These people are always respected in their family and society. Honesty is the most remarkable expression of self-respect and other-respect, without any concessions to self-deception or other- deception.

Honesty is the foundation for our daily interaction with friends, students and other people. Whenever we talk with them, they feel happy and secure because it also shows a part of our good and clean character, so honesty helps to develop quality property in behaviour. Honesty is the quality of communicating and acting truthfully. As we share with students, the daily schedule may be in the class, in the playground, in the activities, in the examination time and at result time. It helps children to be stronger, better and independent people. It creates a feeling of joy and goodwill in one’s heart. For improving interest in these values, stories and plays are very helpful sources for us. This promise is about the choices we make and how we treat others. Acting with honesty is a very important part of being an honest person. We must always remember to tell the truth no matter how hard it is. We must also be respectful towards others, ourselves and property around us. To show we are always following this promise we must always listen in class, follow instructions the first of being asked and show respect to school by looking after our environment. Honest people never lie, cheat or steal. An honest person is a genius, fair with everyone, sincere with work, always speaks truth and loyalty. Honesty is a feeling of pride, self-worth and character. Some people who are known for their honesty like: - Martin Luther, Cochise, Barbara Jordan, Confucius, Raja Harishchandra and Mahatma Gandhi etc. These people always live in the heart of people. Punita Chouhan The Fabindia School

Honesty and Respect - Nikita Rajpurohit


Honesty and Respect play an important role in everyone's life and it is a character which is visible with open eyes like an open book. Having considered as an honest person by society is one of the best compliments one can dream of in his/her life. A person who is honest will always be respected by all. An honest person enjoys a light-headed feeling because he doesn't feel the stress and tension of lying.

Ultimately, Honesty enhances the reputation of a person. He/She enjoys enormous respect in society, school, college, etc. Furthermore, a truthful person can easily generate trust with other people. If a person is honestly dedicated towards his work or profession, his work will be admired by all and he will earn respect. "Honesty makes us glow and Respect makes us bow down"

Often children try to get away from trouble by telling lies, therefore, the duty of parents and teachers is to make them understand that Honesty is the best policy. Students should be taught that harsh truth, no matter how hurtful, is far better than the white lies that profoundly impact the character and create a bad perception in society. Instead of rebuking a child for dishonesty, what an educator can do is to regularly interact with them about the values of honesty in the social sphere. Honesty is the bedrock on which relationship stands and mutual trust, as well as respect, can be built.


Respect is earned by our actions and it is important to remember that respect is a two-way street. If you respect a person, then the person also respects you.  The three vital things to have respect for is, respect oneself, respect for others and respect for belongings. Students should be taught to respect, which will enable them to exist well in human life. Without

respect and honesty, it's very difficult to make friends or to build a successful career.

Nikita Rajpurohit
The Fabindia School

Monday, April 20, 2020

Honesty and Respect - Penta BHIS

Honesty & Respect - I
“The high road is always respected. Honesty and Integrity is always rewarded.”---Scott Hamilton.

Honesty, and broadly integrity, are important traits in one’s academic and professional life. In school, a healthy student-teacher relationship comes from mutual respect and trust; these can further lead to the building of nascent characters. Common civilisational values build an honour code in individuals that can act as a beacon all through their lives.

In the little world of my classroom, when I ask a question, students need to raise their hands first, wait for me to call upon them before they get to answer. Sam would never volunteer to answer. Whenever I asked him if he had understood the concept, he would keep an embarrassing silence until the student sitting beside him prompted the answer to him. Most often, Sam’s answers would be fashioned from these prompts. I explained to everyone that prompting their friends was a hindrance to learning, never a help, as I would never come to know whether Sam had actually understood the concept or had merely repeated another’s the answer.

Cut to the test day. As was the norm with me, I reminded everyone to focus on their own papers and not others’. While correcting the answer scripts, I was shocked at Sam’s poor performance. The next day, I asked him what had happened in the test. He ruefully told me that he had not prepared for the test and added,                                                                                                      
“I did not want to copy from my partner’s paper as I really was unaware of the answers”.

More than his grades, I appreciated him for his honesty and sincere approach to learning. Sam was able to tell me the truth as he believed that I would respect his standpoint. Well, he had also earned my respect. His parents were emotional when this incident was brought to their notice. It was important for them too, to look beyond his marks in comparison to his classmates.

Honesty is more than being truthful. Honesty refers to being morally correct – which in turn, is bound to earn respect. Sam, though different from others, was accepted by all for his integrity and had succeeded in building a network based on respect.

“Speak with honesty, think with sincerity, and act with integrity.”---Anonymous


Honesty & Respect -II
This was a new Grade IX for me. The students were aware (from their seniors) that I am a no-nonsense teacher, just as I knew this class to be a troublesome one. Within two weeks of school, we had a class test of 25 marks. The test was based on grammar with objective questions.

I returned the corrected worksheets and began discussing the answers. By the end of the class, this very bright teenager, with a reputation for not only disturbing the class but also instigating others to follow suit, came up to me. He grudgingly pointed out my ‘mistakes’ or ‘perhaps oversight’ (in his words) in my corrections.


I could immediately discern that these changes in the answers had been his handiwork in the last few minutes. The correct answers were either too carefully written or stood out of a mess of scratches. Clearly, the child was not yet masterful in his questionable ways. Not just yet.

I studied all my ‘oversights’ and his apparently ‘correct’ answers carefully. Calling him aside, I asked him twice – “Are you sure?” The second time, he did not look at me as he nodded.

I took his worksheet and marked him 25/25. I told him that I would be uploading the marks the following day. So, he needed to think and answer with complete certitude if he truly deserved a 100% score. After all, he was seeking fairness.

The next day, he gave me a note from his mother, still avoiding my eyes. The note said how my words had made him think, but he could not undo the damage when he had chosen to go on with his lies - that being the easier way out. She thanked me for making her son introspect and reject the wrong path. After expressing her gratitude, she requested a favour. Since the boy could not own up (being afraid to create a poor impression at the beginning of the academic year), could I forgive and help him?

In the next little discussion that we had (out, in the corridor), I acknowledged his ability to see the truth for what it was, irrespective of how daunting this might have been for a youngster. I changed the marks to the actual figure he had secured but told him that he had scored 100% as a human being in my eyes.

Strangely, I did not encounter any disturbance in the class in the two years I taught it.

When we treat people merely as they are, they will remain as they are. When we treat them as they should be, they will strive towards attaining that potential. (Inspired by T.S. Monson's words)

Penta @ Billabong High International School, Thane
- Jeeji Sanjeev, Sanika Joshi, Arpita M.G., Radhika Anand, Muskaan Menda, Supriya Naravankar & Bhavani Swamy

Tuesday, March 3, 2020

Honesty and Respect - Parivartan SHS

THE ARRANGEMENT
“Triiiinnngggg!”, the bell chimed announcing the commencement of a new academic session. Mr Rohit, as nervous as he was, was prepared to face the challenges of being appointed as the new classroom teacher for the 8th grade. He had already planned ways to involve new ideas in his classroom and he was extremely excited.

As soon as he entered the class, he noticed the disorganized seating arrangement and so he decided to bring about more harmony and equality among the students. He planned the seating arrangement according to the physical attributes of his students, focusing on their heights. At the end, he was quite impressed with his managing skills.

As the days went by, he noticed that some of the back-benchers had frequently begun disrupting the class by constantly giggling, and disturbing the fellow classmates.
One day, Mr. Rohit decided to take up a class test, and he expected everyone to excel, but the outcome was quite contradictory. The back-benchers had failed to grasp the concept of his lessons, this disappointed him.
He decided to confront them in the class

“Anup, Soraj, and Raj”, Mr. Rohit said sternly,” Why have you not studied properly?”

The three boys kept quiet.
“Answer me!”,  Mr. Rohit ordered, sensing a surge of anger swelling inside him, “Did you not understand what was being taught?”

The three boys didn’t reply.

Mr Rohit took a deep breath, collected himself and asked in a softer tone, “I am sorry if I am being harsh. I just want all of you to be involved in the class and gain as much as you can. If you had some problem with my teaching method, you should have told me beforehand.”

Then suddenly, one of the boys- Aditya who was sitting at the front, answered. “Sir, they weren’t able to see, and hear you properly. They have some shortcomings of their own.”

This revelation disappointed Mr Rohit as he understood his impulsive mistake. He smiled and replied, “I apologize for my ignorance and quick judgment, and I am grateful to Aditya for being truthful and helping out your friends.” And then addressing the three back-benchers he said, “I apologize to you three as well, it was my mistake that paved the way to your bad performance, but you should have been honest from the beginning. Honesty is an important asset that needs to be learnt and followed. If your friend wouldn’t have pointed out my mistake and your difficulty, then I would have never known and this would have hampered your performance in your academic career. Please don’t ever forget this and the next time if you have any problem, please be bold and honest with me.”
The back-benchers realized their mistake and apologized to their class and vowed to be sincere and truthful after that incident.

The seating arranged was then changed as per the requirements of the students. This change shifted the progress of the students to another level and the entire class performance improved tremendously.

LIFE LESSONS
Sarla was the epitome of what is known as the ‘Average Student’. Her overall performance during her school life was neither too good nor too bad, but the most remarkable attribute she had was her sincerity and her heart of respecting everyone around her.

The other children used to criticize her for being mediocre, calling her ‘meek’ and ‘naïve’, but she never reacted to their odd comments, she was always polite and sincere under all circumstances.
A few years later, after she had completed her studies, Sarla ran into her old English teacher, Miss Jasmine. By then, Sarla had already accomplished many goals and was doing marvellously well in her career. She was known as the Woman of great Honour, but even then she never forgot her old values and integrity.

At first, Miss Jasmine thought that like her other old students, Sarla too would ignore her but to her surprise, the latter quickly recognized her from a distance and came up to her.
“Ma’am!”, Sarla exclaimed with a smile, “Good evening! I am so glad to see you!”

Miss Jasmine was taken aback and she smiled back saying, “Good evening, Sarla. I thought that you would never recognize me.”

“How can I not recognize you, ma’am!” Sarla said, “If it wouldn’t have been for you, I would be nowhere right now. Whatever I know, I learnt from you.”
“From me?” Miss Jasmine asked, “What did I teach you? I was only an English teacher.”

Sarla smiled saying,” Ma’am, to me you aren’t just an old English teacher, but you are also my role model. I learnt great life lessons from you, and all that has shaped me into who I am today. The way you listened to each and every one of us, and the way you respected our ideas have helped me grow so much as an individual. I am so grateful to you! Thank you, ma’am”
This made Miss Jasmine very pleased, her role as a teacher had become a medium of inducing inspiring development in a student. She felt like she had done her part and played her role successfully, she felt a deep sense of satisfaction grow inside her heart.

-Anand Acharya hianand2008@gmail.com for Parivartan at Sacred Heart School Siliguri

Thursday, December 19, 2019

HONESTY

“Honesty is the best policy.” It is a common thought with the people, but they didn’t know the real meaning of this valuable word. Honesty is being sincere, truthful and frankness. It helps us to be trustworthy and get lots of respect in life because honest people are really trusted by others. These people are always respected in their family and society.

Honesty is the Foundation for our daily interaction with friends, students and other people. Whenever we talk with them, they feel happy and secure because it also shows a part of our excellent and clean character so, honesty helps to develop quality property in behaviour.

Honesty is the Quality of communicating and acting truthfully. As we share with students in daily schedule may be in the class, in the playground, in the activities, in the examination time and at result time.

Its helps children to be stronger, better and dependable persons. It creates a feeling of joy and goodwill in one’s heart. For improving interest in these value stories and plays are a beneficial source for us. Honest people never lie, cheat or steal. A reasonable person is a genius, fair with everyone, sincere with works, always speak truth and loyal.

Honesty is a feeling of pride, self-worth and character. Some people who are known for their reliability like - Martin Luther, Cochise, Barbara Jordan, Confucius, Raja Harishchandra and Mahatma Gandhi etc. These people always live in the heart of people.   

Swabhi Parmar, Punita Chouhan & Jitendra Suthar
The Fabindia School

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