Showing posts with label connection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label connection. Show all posts

Saturday, June 6, 2026

Empathise and Connect with high-risk Teenage Behaviour to address it.

Learning Forward Saturday

To understand and address high-risk teenage behaviour through empathy and connection.

Key Takeaways

  • Teen behaviour is often biological rather than rebellious. The developing teen brain drives risk-taking, making empathy and education more effective than punishment.

  • Punishment is counterproductive. Suspension and expulsion create “alienation”—the very isolation teens seek to escape—and worsen the problem.

  • “Academic Connection” is the solution. This approach values student effort and problem-solving, creating a supportive environment that provides a natural “high” from success.

  • Teachers are the frontline defence. By building trust and making learning engaging, they provide the “shelter of loved ones” that gives students the confidence to resist peer pressure.

Topics

The Problem: Volatile Substance Abuse (BSA)

  • The session explored Volatile Substance Abuse (BSA), a serious, often fatal, health hazard.

  • Definition: Deliberate inhalation of volatile solvents (e.g., diluters, nail polish remover, glue) for intoxication.

  • Motivation: Driven by psychological factors, not physical addiction.

    • Peer pressure and the desire to belong

    • The thrill of risk-taking

    • A misguided attempt to gain attention

The Flawed Solution: Punishment & Alienation

  • Punishment (detention, suspension, expulsion) is a counterproductive response to BSA.

  • Rationale: It creates “alienation”—the isolation teens are trying to escape—and thus exacerbates the problem instead of solving it.

The Effective Solution: Empathy & Connection

  • An empathetic approach, combined with strong parent-teacher collaboration, is required.

  • “Academic Connection” (Alan Mendler): A key strategy that values student thoughts, problem-solving, and effort.

    • Outcome: Creates a positive learning environment where students feel enthused to face challenges.

  • Teacher’s Role:

    • Build Trust: Create a “culture of trust and learning” to prevent students from seeking risky alternatives.

    • Engage Students: Make school experiences interesting and relevant to keep students engaged and feeling valued.

    • Provide a “Shelter”: Offer a supportive environment that gives students the confidence to say “no” to peer pressure.

Real-World Application & Teacher Reflections

  • Rekha Sharma: Built a personal connection with a nervous student, helping them overcome fear and win a competition.

  • Pratiksha Dhiman: Connects with students individually during notebook checks, creating a safe space for them to share problems.

  • Sandeep Dutt: Shared a poem highlighting the teacher’s multifaceted role as a counsellor, confidant, and guide.

Next Steps

  • Sneha: Share the following in the WhatsApp group:

    • The term “Academic Connection” and Alan Mendler’s book, Connecting with Students to Limit High-Risk Behaviours.

    • The quote on analysing behaviour rationally and finding scientific causes.

    • The link to the “Right vs. Wrong” chapter summary podcast.

  • All Participants:

    • Research “Academic Connection” and share reflections in the WhatsApp group.

    • Share personal experiences of helping students overcome fear or alienation. 

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Tuesday, October 28, 2025

The Productive Failure - Sunanda Singh Rathore


Assignment 1 – (The Productive Failure)

When Students Decoded ‘If’: A Journey Through Struggle and Discovery

While preparing to teach Rudyard Kipling’s ‘If’, I paused before making my lesson design, wondering how to begin. It is a beautiful poem. I wanted my children to experience each and every emotion portrayed in the poem.

So, I thought to start writing notes on the board. I remembered Manu Kapur’s idea of Productive Failure—how learning becomes deeper when students are allowed to struggle before being given answers. That day, I decided not to “explain” rather just simply write the word ‘IF’ on the board and ask them what comes to their mind when they see this small, two-letter word.

The students were perplexed yet curious. No one knew what was next… Hands slowly began to rise. Someone said, imagination; another one said hope; one felt advice, another said, “It sounds strict.” Someone quietly added, failure. I smiled and wrote their words on the board. The word IF had already started unfolding its meaning through their minds.

After a few responses, I told the context—Kipling writing to his son in a world full of uncertainty. Suddenly, lines found meaning.

“Triumph and Disaster” were no longer vocabulary—they were life moments.

The poem transformed from a list of “If you can…” to a quiet message about character, patience, and dignity.

What Productive Failure Looked Like in Real Time:
At first, students reacted based on their instinct, not with careful thought. Wrong answers were welcomed and reused as stepping stones. Students started to comprehend lines after lines—feeling → confusion → connection → clarity. Children did not hear the lecture; instead, they built it on their understanding.

This approach helps students move from just seeking answers to thinking critically and reflecting on the meaning and significance of what they’re learning.

I realised that explaining too early kills curiosity. When students were given time to think, they became more curious and began asking questions. Instead of asking “What is the main message of the poem?” or “Who is the poet?” or “What is the moral?”, they began asking, “Why does the poet ask us to smile even when we lose?”

That shift—from hunting for answers to thinking about life—was the real success of this approach.

That day, ‘If’ by Rudyard Kipling was not “taught.” It was discovered—slowly, imperfectly, and beautifully. And perhaps that is what Manu Kapur truly meant—let learning begin with a stumble, not a definition.

Assignment 2 – (The Productive Failure)

Mastering Adverbs through Inquiry-Based Learning

Grade Level: VI
Topic: Understanding and Using Adverbs
Duration: Two sessions of 40 minutes each
Learning Objective: To enable students to identify, form, and use adverbs correctly in sentences, improving their writing fluency and descriptive language skills.

Background:
During a review of student writing samples, I observed that Grade VI students struggled with the correct usage of adverbs. Common issues included confusing adverbs with adjectives or using them incorrectly in sentences. This indicated a conceptual gap between understanding the function of adverbs and their application in writing.

Methodology (What did I plan to do):

Session 1 – Exploration Stage:
I gave them a short paragraph with blanks and asked them to fill them with words that described the verbs (e.g., She sang ___). The task was to make the sentences more descriptive without any explicit instruction about adverbs.

What did I observe:
Many students used adjectives instead of adverbs or used incorrect forms (e.g., She danced graceful instead of She danced gracefully). This confirmed the initial misconception and created a body of common errors for later reflection.

Session 2 – Reflection and Guided Discovery:
In this session, I began by reading a few incorrect sentences and discussed how we can describe the way she danced. Then, I cleared their confusion about the difference between adjectives and adverbs. After that, I explained what an adverb is and how it functions.

Key Activity: ‘Adverb Factory’
Students received verb cards (e.g., run, read, write) and adverb suffix cards (e.g., -ly, -wise). They worked in pairs to create adverbs by combining the verb cards with the suffix cards, discussing the changes in meaning and usage.

Overall Finding:
The average number of errors per student dropped, demonstrating a marked and immediate improvement in the application of adverbs.

Teacher’s Reflection:
This activity reinforced the power of hands-on discovery in teaching abstract grammar concepts. The errors in the pre-test were essential; they created a need to know that was resolved by the engaging, physical act of “Adverb Factory.” Students moved from simply guessing the correct form to applying a concrete, rule-based understanding of adverbs. This approach successfully fostered a deeper, more confident grasp of a challenging concept.

Student Feedback:

“I never knew adverbs were so cool! I can describe things better now.” – Yashika
“I liked creating adverbs with suffixes. It helped me understand how they work.” – Arush

By using a similar approach to the one described in The Productive Failure by Manu Kapur, we can empower students to take ownership of their learning and develop a deeper understanding of complex concepts.

Assignment 3 – (The Productive Failure)

Recently, I taught “The Two Miler” to my seventh-grade class. The story depicts a long race and explores the ups and downs that the runner faces, including pain, effort, and ultimately, triumph.

Instead of explaining the whole story beforehand, I decided to try something different. I asked the students to read the first two pages and create a graphic organiser to show what the title of the story suggests and to predict what might happen next.

I noticed that many students focused primarily on surface details, mentioning only the characters, images, races, and so on. Few of them considered why the story truly matters. They provided various conclusions—some incorrect, some partially correct. That’s okay, because as Manu Kapur explains, when students work on something without full guidance, the struggle they encounter can be productive.

The real challenge for me as a teacher was to help them look deeper, to understand that the story is not simply about running two miles. It’s about patience, courage, perseverance, and finishing strong even when faced with pain.

In line with Manu Kapur’s concept of Productive Failure, I wanted my students to go beyond just counting laps or describing actions; I wanted them to recognize the emotional aspects of the race—the internal struggle between the runner’s mind and body, and how he learns to overcome fear and pain.

We read through the chapter again, taking small pauses to try and understand what each runner was thinking. We explored how they felt when the runner’s legs trembled and he wondered if he could continue. We considered what it meant when the crowd cheered, while his mind was elsewhere.

The students began to see the deeper structure of the story: how the race wasn’t just about speed, but about endurance, inner strength, and mind over body.

This mirrors Manu Kapur’s point that experts look for deep structure; novices often stay at surface level. They connected the story’s theme to their own lives. The struggle in the story became the model for their learning.

What We Learned from This Process:

  • Wrong guesses were not failures. They were starting points for thinking.

  • Struggle drew attention because students made guesses, they remembered the story better and asked stronger questions.

  • A deeper understanding emerged. Instead of “He won the race,” students realised “He overcame the thought of self-doubt.”

I realised that failure isn’t falling behind—it’s moving one step closer to thinking, to understanding and succeeding.

Assignment - 4

Case Study – Learning Beyond the Surface: Understanding “The Painted Ceiling” through Productive Failure

Introduction:
This case study explores how students of Class 6 engaged with Amy Lowell’s poem “The Painted Ceiling” using the framework of Productive Failure, as described in Kapur’s book Unlocking Deeper Learning through the Science of Failure.

The poem, rich with imagery and layered meaning, serves as an ideal medium to help students move from surface-level understanding (novice) to deep interpretation (expert).

Context:
In a classroom of 30 students, most learners initially focused only on the literal description of the poem — the ceiling, colours, and patterns. They admired the imagery but missed the symbolic meaning — the connection between imagination and inner beauty.

The teacher designed a lesson that allowed students to struggle productively before arriving at the poem’s deeper meaning.

Learning Design:

Phase 1 – Productive Struggle (Failure Phase):
Students were asked: “Why do you think the poet chose to paint the ceiling and not the walls?”

Most students gave simple answers (“because it looks beautiful” or “the poet liked the ceiling”) and got confused when probed further.

This confusion created cognitive dissonance—a key part of productive failure.

Phase 2 – Guided Discussion:
The teacher introduced the idea of seeing differently (from Kapur’s concept: “Experts not only see different things but also see things differently.”)

Students revisited the poem and began linking the ceiling’s painting to the poet’s imagination and inner vision, not just the physical space.

Phase 3 – Knowledge Consolidation:
Students compared two interpretations — one literal and one symbolic — and reflected on how context, prior knowledge, and peer discussion helped them find meaning.

Observation and Findings:

Aspect Novice Learners Emerging Experts
Focus Literal images (colours, shapes) Symbolic meaning (ceiling as imagination)
Understanding Surface details Deep, emotional connection
Use of Prior Knowledge Limited — focused on what they saw Linked poem with art, dreams, and creativity
Contextual Recall Remembered lines but not meanings Remembered ideas by connecting them to imagery and emotion
Reaction to Failure Frustrated, unsure Curious, reflective, and collaborative

Students who initially failed to “get” the poem later reported greater enjoyment and retention. They began seeing literature as layered and meaningful, much like experts do.

Link to Kapur’s Research (Comparative Analysis):

Productive Failure Concept Application in “The Painted Ceiling” Lesson Example from Book Pages
Experts vs. Novices Students moved from seeing “what is painted” to “why it’s painted” “Experts not only see different things but also see things differently.”
Prior Knowledge Students used their understanding of art and imagination to interpret symbolism “Prior knowledge affects the very encoding of what they observe.”
Learning as Language Literature is seen as a new ‘language’ — students learned to decode poetic symbols “Each domain has a formal language, with its own grammar and meanings.”
Context and Recall Discussion and visualisation helped retain meaning “We encode not just words but also the context in which they are learned.”
Failing to Transfer Without connecting imagery to meaning, students couldn’t transfer learning “When learning and testing contexts were different, recall suffered.”

Teacher Reflection:
Initially, students’ struggles seemed like failure, but it became the foundation for deep learning. The process of grappling with confusion encouraged them to:

  • Reflect rather than memorize

  • Build connections using prior knowledge

  • Appreciate literature as a “language of feeling.”

Thus, “failure” was not a setback—it was the first step towards expertise.

Conclusion:
The Class 6 experiment on Amy Lowell’s “The Painted Ceiling” demonstrates how Productive Failure in literature classes can transform passive reading into active meaning-making.

Just as Kapur’s learners in math or science use prior knowledge to reach deeper understanding, literature students can also “see differently” when guided to interpret, question, and reflect.

Suggested Research Title:
Seeing Differently: Applying the Theory of Productive Failure to Literary Interpretation in Class 6 — A Case Study on Amy Lowell’s “The Painted Ceiling”

Assignment 5 – Direct & Indirect Speech Mastery (Grade 7)

This case study tracks the immediate improvement of five students after targeted lessons on Direct and Indirect (Reported) Speech. The goal was to see if focused teaching on grammar rules would quickly improve their accuracy.

The Challenge (The Failure State):
Students struggled primarily with the two main transformation rules of Indirect Speech:
a) Tense Backshift: Changing present tense verbs to past tense (or past to past perfect) when reporting speech.
b) Adverbial Shift: Changing time/place words (e.g., today → that day, here → there).

The Solution (The Intervention):
The students participated in three short, focused intervention sessions over one week:
a) Visual Charts: They used a chart mapping the required tense changes.
b) Drill Practice: They practised converting dialogue from simple Active sentences to Passive Voice.
c) Application: They converted short, realistic conversations into reported speech.

Results:
A 15-item quiz requiring full sentence conversion was administered before (Pre-Test) and after (Post-Test) the lessons. Students showed remarkable improvement in the post-test.

Conclusion:
The data confirmed that most of the students showed significant improvement (an average increase of over 40% in accuracy). The targeted instruction, focusing separately on tense, pronouns, and time words, was effective.

This demonstrates that for Grade 7 grammar, structured, rule-based teaching rapidly enhances the ability to use Direct and Indirect Speech correctly in writing and conversation.

Sunanda Singh Rathore
Sunbeam School Lahartara

Sunday, February 2, 2025

What Makes a School! - Aakash Agrawal

A school is more than just bricks and books. It's a vibrant ecosystem where young minds blossom under the guidance of dedicated educators. At the heart of this ecosystem lies the teacher-student relationship, a dynamic bond that shapes not only academic success but also the overall well-being of students

The Power of Connection:
Imagine a classroom where students feel seen, heard, and understood. Where their curiosity is nurtured, their questions are valued, and their struggles are met with empathy. This is the power of a positive teacher-student relationship. It creates a safe and supportive learning environment where students feel comfortable taking risks, asking questions, and actively participating in their education.

Beyond Academics :
The impact of this relationship extends far beyond grades and test scores. Teachers who build strong connections with their students become mentors, role models, and trusted confidantes. They help students develop essential social-emotional skills, build confidence, and navigate the challenges of adolescence. Sharing my personal experience it actually contributes to the holistic development of each child.

Aakash Agrawal
Sunbeam Varuna, Varanasi


Love Learning Vs Hate Learning - Khalid Zafar

A student’s bond with their teacher plays a crucial role in shaping their attitude toward learning. When a child feels connected, they approach learning with curiosity and enthusiasm. But when there is a disconnect, learning becomes a burden, and the classroom turns into a place of struggle rather than growth.    

As a teacher, I have witnessed both sides of this spectrum. There are students who eagerly participate, not just because they love the subject, but because they feel seen and valued by their teacher. On the other hand, there are students who withdraw, who struggle not because they lack intelligence, but because they feel unheard, unnoticed, or unmotivated.  
In my early teaching years, I believed that content mastery alone could make me an effective teacher. However, I soon realized that a teacher's ability to build relationships with students is just as important as delivering knowledge. When a student feels emotionally disconnected, their ability to grasp even the simplest concepts diminishes.  

I have seen students who initially showed no interest in learning but transformed once they found a teacher who understood them. A struggling student does not always need extra homework or stricter discipline; sometimes, they simply need someone who listens, encourages, and believes in them. A simple conversation, a word of appreciation, or a small gesture of support can bridge the gap between a student and their learning journey.  

As teachers, we must ensure that our classrooms are places of connection, where students feel safe to ask questions, make mistakes, and grow. The true success of teaching is not just in covering the syllabus but in ensuring that no child feels left behind. When a student connects with their teacher, learning becomes an exciting adventure rather than a chore. And in that connection lies the real magic of education.

Khalid Zafar 
Sunbeam Suncity 

Tuesday, December 31, 2024

Smile vs. Frown: The Power of Expression in Shaping Relationships- Sunbeam English School Bhagwanpur

A smile and a frown may seem like simple facial expressions, but they hold incredible power in shaping our interactions, relationships, and even our own emotions. In a world where communication extends beyond words, these subtle gestures often speak louder than we realize.

The Power of a Smile- A smile is a universal symbol of warmth, friendliness, and positivity. Its impact is profound, often spreading beyond the individual to influence the entire atmosphere of a room.

Builds Connection:- A smile is an invitation for conversation and camaraderie. It breaks barriers and fosters trust, whether between friends, colleagues, or strangers.

Boosts Mood:- Smiling releases endorphins and serotonin—natural mood lifters—making both the smiler and the observer feel happier.

Encourages Collaboration:- In group settings, a smile signals openness and cooperation, helping people work together more effectively.

Improves Health:- Smiling reduces stress, lowers blood pressure, and can even strengthen the immune system.

The Impact of a Frown:- A frown, on the other hand, often conveys negative emotions such as sadness, frustration, or anger. While it’s a natural reaction to adversity, its prolonged presence can have unintended consequences:

Creates Distance:- Frowning can make others feel unwelcome or hesitant to approach, potentially straining relationships.

Spreads Negativity:- Just as a smile can brighten a room, a frown can dampen the mood, affecting both the individual and those around them.

Increases Stress:-Frowning is often associated with negative emotions, which can increase cortisol levels and heighten stress.

Physical Strain:- Chronic frowning can lead to muscle tension and even contribute to headaches or facial discomfort.

The Choice Between Smiles and Frowns- While life inevitably presents moments that prompt frowns, consciously choosing to smile, even during challenging times, can transform the way we experience and handle those moments.

In Personal Relationships:- A smile can mend conflicts, express affection, and reinforce bonds, while a frown might unintentionally signal discontent or withdrawal.

In Professional Settings:- Smiling exudes confidence and approachability, making it a powerful tool for building networks and fostering teamwork.

For Self-Wellness:- Smiling not only impacts how others perceive us but also influences our internal emotional state, helping us navigate difficulties with resilience.

Embracing Positivity- The debate between smile vs. frown is less about erasing negativity and more about fostering balance. Frowns have their place in expressing genuine emotions, but smiles remind us of the strength in positivity.

So, the next time life challenges you, consider this: a smile might not solve every problem, but it has the power to make the journey a little brighter—for you and those around you.

Sanyogita Dubey
Reeta Tiwari
Sneha Singh
Sunbeam English School Bhagwanpur

Thursday, December 19, 2024

The Importance of Relationship Building in Schools - Mizan Ali

In the context of education, relationship building forms the bedrock of a thriving school environment where students are the focal point. When a child feels valued, supported, and connected within the school community, they are far more likely to flourish academically, socially, and emotionally. These relationships—particularly with teachers—play a pivotal role in shaping a student’s development.

A strong emotional connection with teachers enables students to build self-confidence, take on challenges, and achieve their full potential. Teachers who genuinely understand a student's needs, address their doubts, and recognize their strengths can empower them to excel. For introverted students who struggle to express themselves, this connection becomes even more critical. Without it, their abilities may remain hidden or underutilized. In such cases, teachers must go beyond judgment and actively support these children, fostering trust and encouragement.

A teacher's role extends beyond delivering lessons. As educational practices evolve with modern technology and innovative methods, some parents remain anchored in traditional approaches. This disconnect can create tension between school and home learning expectations. Therefore, teachers must build relationships with parents as well, helping them understand and embrace these educational changes.

By prioritizing meaningful connections with both students and parents, schools create an environment where every child feels empowered to succeed, and every family becomes a partner in their educational journey.

Mizan Ali
Sunbeam Indiranagar

Saturday, July 16, 2022

Simplicity and Trust - Arav Agarwal

 Lesson - Simplicity and Trust on 09.07.2022

1.       Simplicity

Simplicity is living a simple life and understanding everything just as it is simple. If we feel our mind has made our life complicated, we can start using a few techniques like deep breathing and self-reflection, which will also help to clear our unnecessary thoughts.

Things I will carry out in class.

ü  Connecting students with nature. Studying outside in nature will help students understand our needs' Simplicity. Nature is the best way to teach how everything is so simple, just the way it is. Also, nature helps to connect with the Simplicity within all of us.

"Nature is pleased with simplicity." — Sir Isaac Newton

Trust

Trust is the foundation of all values; Trust is having belief and faith in something or someone. Teacher and student relationship is based on the foundation of trust. The trust of a teacher in their students gives the student confidence to perform in class and in life. Also, the trust of a student in their teacher provides the teacher with hope for the future.

Things I will carry out in class.

ü  Doing team activities in class builds trust that the team members are there to support each other.

ü  Make five minutes the trust minutes where we share about ourselves with each other and appreciate.

"None of us knows what might happen even the next minute, yet still we go forward. Because we trust. Because we have faith."
― 
Paulo Coelho

The connection between Simplicity and trust – Trust the Simplicity of life. Life is simple. We have to keep the faith and trust it.

Name - Arav Agarwal 
Grade - 6A
Billabong High International School Thane 

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Saturday, June 25, 2022

Courage and Patience - Rishona Chopra and Simar Kaur


Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear. 

~Nelson Mandela 

Courage is simply conquering your fear despite how much it frightens you. Tell yourself to take the leap when you are too afraid to do something. You will take time to rise to the occasion, but one fine day, you will wake up and tell yourself, 'Today is the day I take the leap'.

Courage can be moral or physical. Feeling pain physically but still doing it is physical courage. However, even if we are physically fearless, our mind is fearful of a lot of things. These are things you don't feel ready for, things that frighten you, and the thought of them happening to you sends chills down your spine, things that haven't perhaps happened but are killing you inside. But at the end of the day, they will happen to you. Feeling that you are not ready to face them will be a part of the challenge, but telling yourself that you are fine and can handle it is the better part. And that is courage. Courage is not thinking that you will do something in the future; it is the ability to slowly get yourself to do it. Telling yourself daily that you are ready and will do it is courage. And then, a day will come when you will soar high in the sky and think about the time you struggled to do the same, and you will be grateful. And that is life. 


Patience is not simply the ability to wait, it’s how we behave while we are waiting.  
~Joyce Meyer 

 

Patience is the biggest virtue one needs to achieve something. It is not the ability to wait but to keep a good attitude while waiting. While working in a team, we require patience; a student involves patience, a teacher, and a doctor in our daily life; patience is one thing that can solve all problems. Doesn't it feel great when somebody listens to you patiently? In the book - Totto-chan, the headmaster patiently understands students and talks and listens to them. The school wouldn't be that unique and extraordinary if he were impatient. Patience can be used in the smallest of things. Imagine you are waiting for a printout for your school project, and the printer isn't working! That is so annoying! You keep getting annoyed, and instead of waiting until the paper comes out, you restart it repeatedly. If you do that, the printer would be annoyed and ultimately stop working or work even slower. On the other hand, if you wait patiently for the paper to come out, it could. Although having patience is annoying, it is necessary as you might get into a fight with someone too! Like you got into a battle with the printer in the above example. Patience is more than a virtue for long lines and slow waiters. Patience is the red carpet upon which God's grace approaches us.


Patience and courage are strongly connected. One needs the courage to be patient. Courage is not just used for overcoming fears but overcoming the challenge of inculcating these values too. Courage is living with patience; courage and patience are bound together, as the will is bound to time. 


One common fear that we all face is losing loved ones. We hate the thought of it happening to us because we don't feel ready; we don't feel like we can handle that kind of sorrow yet. But, everything doesn't happen according to us. You need to be patient to understand that even if we are not ready, someone will leave us forever - that is the inevitable yet frightening part of our lives. We can't control it and don't feel courageous enough to handle it. But the truth is that we will never be ready.

You will have the courage to let them go one day, but you will remember them forever. Instead, you'll be grateful to have had someone like that in your life. Maybe it will take 2 years or 15 years, but you will be ready one day and courageous enough to let them go and not feel guilty about being happy. Because that's simply the way, life works. And you will have the courage to face it one day, even if you don't have it yet. The thought that our loved ones will disappear just scares us because we don't live in the present and think about the future. We are not patient with life; we don't let life unfold its destiny but keep thinking about it. We must be patient in life and, most importantly, to ourselves, too, which takes courage.


Written by Rishona Chopra and Simar Kaur from Gyanshree School, Noida.

Tuesday, July 27, 2021

Thoughtfulness and Understanding - Sandhya Thadani

Thoughtfulness and understanding are two interrelated and interdependent values. 

To be thoughtful positively in any tiring situation can be very challenging. It is said as you think, your actions will follow accordingly. Being thoughtful is a positive attitude that has to be cultivated slowly as one develops stamina by practising rigorously. When positive thoughts and images surround us, our understanding and response to the demanding situation will be very different. 

Our mind should be filled up with positive thoughts all the time, such as cooking, cleaning, studying, walking etc. From morning till night, our thoughts should be corrected. Only with this attitude will our true self come forward, and our understanding of the situation will be deep and unjudgmental. 

By being thoughtful with a positive attitude, life becomes inspiring and meaningful. 

It all starts with a positive thought!

The following are the three tools I would like to use to inculcate empathy. 

  1. Stories: Stories are a powerful means to develop values. By sharing experiences, it gives ideas when put into other people’s narratives. It triggers emotions, and one can identify with the stories. 

  2. Reflection activities: When a student knows that the teacher is listening, not judging and is open to conversation, it gives a new perspective to both sides. Connection is made, trust is built, and creative ideas flow in. 

  3. Sub-group activities: It is one of the ways when a child could be connected to feel empathy. We can provide experiences of values and emotions and the means to deal with them. The teacher can watch the emotions dispassionately and then choose to give her feedback wherever it is necessary. 

  • Enacting Situations: Giving the children situations and creating a conscious story around. By imitating empathy, they will learn to empathize with others. 

  • Collective games: Playing collective games is very important. It helps to develop character. Suppose a child is playing basketball; the child learns to play in a team and learns to control his emotions. Outbursts, screaming and playing foul games would not be tolerated by his peers and by his teachers. Next time when his peer will miss his catch, he will be sensitive and encouraging. “Don’t worry, you would succeed next time”. 

  • Music and Dance: This is one of the best ways to develop empathy and other emotions. Singing meaningful songs and learning any form of classical dance can help bring the best out of a child. 

Developing empathy 

This is a picture from an article called “The Rescuing Hug.” The article details the first week of the life of a set of twins. Apparently, each was in their respective incubators, and one was not expected to live. A hospital nurse fought against hospital rules and placed the babies in one incubator. When they were placed together, the healthier of the two threw an arm over her sister in an endearing embrace. The smaller baby’s heart rate stabilized, and her temperature rose to normal. 

Kyrie and Brielle Jackson were born on 17 October 1995 at the Massachusetts Memorial Hospital in Worcester, MA. Each of the twins weighed two pounds at birth. Though Kyrie was putting on a bit of weight in the days following her arrival, Brielle was not doing well. She cried a great deal, leaving her gasping and blue-faced. Brielle was having a terrible day. NICU (Newborn Intensive Care Unit) nurse Gayle Kasparian tried everything to calm her. She held her. She had her dad hold her. She wrapped her in a blanket. She suctioned her nose. Nothing worked. 

Then, she remembered hearing about a procedure done in Europe. She put Brielle in the incubator with her sister Kyrie. Almost immediately, Brielle snuggled up to Kyrie. Her blood-oxygen saturation levels, which had been frighteningly low, soared. She began to breathe more easily. The frantic crying stopped, and her normal pinkish colour quickly returned. Over the next weeks, her health improved steadily in her new, less lonely quarters. 

Although it’s impossible to say whether Brielle’s recovery was wholly or primarily due to the healing touch of her twin sister, she did improve considerably after Kyrie was placed in the incubator with her. The children survived their rocky beginning and, in time, went home with their mother and father, but the media attention brought about by their story and the now-famous photograph prompted their parents, Heidi and Paul Jackson of Westminster, to change their telephone number.

Source:
Barker, Leslie.   “The Magic Touch.”
https://wwwparentingforbrain.com

The following discussion will follow in the class:
How do you feel after listening to the story?
What kind of communication did the babies have? 
Roleplay on these two babies- ( what would they say to each other, how would they behave and will they still be so close to each other.)
When they were born.
When they become 10 years old.
When they become 20 years old.
Draw a picture of your friend with whom you can share feelings and feel connected in your class.

Children should see the following video:

- Sandhya Thadani @JMMS, John Martyn Memorial School, Salangaon, Dehradun 

Monday, July 6, 2020

Michael Paolucci "I am passionate about Education...

Episode #30: Sandeep Dutt in conversation with Michael Paolucci founder and CEO of Slooh.Com, he travels around the world to present Slooh to thousands of students are very excited to catch a glimpse of space. Their desire to see for themselves something of these distant worlds captured for me the essence of space exploration, the power it has to inspire limitless dreams of the future, particularly among those with otherwise limited horizons. Mike says they fuel my passion to make space accessible to everyone. On a daily basis, that means working to lower costs, increase automation, translate into foreign languages, and make it easier for students of all ages to learn how to think about what they are seeing through the live telescope feeds. Education is about freedom, for Slooh sky really is the limit...across galaxies, into the world of Star Trek, listen to how Mike is making a world of difference, just for the twinkle in the eyes of the children across the globe.

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What is Slooh? 
YOUR INTERFACE TO SPACE 
  • Tools to explore space. 17 online telescopes on three continents covering 20+ hours per day. 
  • Communal exploration of the universe. Learn from what other members do with the telescopes. 
  • Gamified, guided learning. Supported by the National Science Foundation, go on exploration Quests to earn badges and Gravity Points. 

Since Slooh launched in 2003, with four telescopes at the world-class astronomical site at the Institute of Astrophysics of the Canary Islands, Slooh members have followed a number of astronomical pursuits:

  1. Tracking Near-Earth Asteroids, making astrometric measurements of their positions to submit to the Minor Planet Center (to determine accurate orbits).
  2. Monitoring the morphology of comets including participation in the largest collaborations projects between professional and amateur astronomers. 
  3. Supernovae, novae, comet and asteroid discovery programs. Art astronomy where members collect the raw astronomical FITS data and process their own colour images.

Slooh expanded its telescope network...

Monday, May 25, 2020

Trust and Simplicity - Kusum Sharma

Trust and Simplicity are very important values for our valuable life. These two values are
very well connected to each other because if a person is simple and reachable then everyone feels a personal connection with him and it's easier to share anything with him and this automatically makes him trustworthy.

With reference to this situation, before a few days ago I was explaining a few important points to students in the classroom and all students were responding well, but a girl who was new in that class and was sitting in a corner of the last bench. It seems that the girl is not able to understand the topics.

I went to her and asked the reason for her intimidation and she didn't answer and was rather sitting quietly and looking into her book. Suddenly a senior girl from class XII entered the classroom due to some necessary work. She was very good in  Social Science topics. I briefed her about the new girl and requested her to talk to her and find out the reason for her trouble. 

I told that shy girl to go out for a few minutes and talked to the senior girl regarding that topic. Both the girls went out for some time. After a healthy conversation, they both became good friends and the senior girl also taught her the way to learn the topics. The simplicity of that senior girl built a great trust, such that now the new girl has completely changed herself and started taking part in all class activities.


Kusum Sharma, The Fabindia School

Thursday, April 4, 2019

Dr Tazeen Jamal Siddiqui: Delusion Of Love

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If we love  someone we want to have them  to be with us so that we can feel happy whenever we watch them, but if it's not possible to have them, we must still love to the same intensity, bless them and care for them but by letting  it go, love is in its purest forms in the art of giving  , it's not about being together  always or close to each other its also about connecting hearts together even if miles apart.

Hearts are connected by even miles and miles of distances with great force.

A strong point of connecting with hearts is more substantial than just the connect of Physical presence.

Its seen in relationships sometimes which is a delusion of love that is convenient love, few examples of convenient love.

“When a friend does amazing for a friend the friend loves that friend, but when the same friends get in trouble or are not of any benefit than the love disappears”

A second example of convenient love is
“When a wife does all great things at home takes care of children and does everything amazingly, the husband loves it, but sometimes if she missed it out, then that love turns into anger without understanding the situation of the lady and love turns to punishment”.

True love is beyond the existence of perfection...
True love is beyond the weaknesses of the person, you love...
True love is beyond being  judgmental
True love is when you can feel, your love in their hearts …
True love is when you honour their will and wishes as your own…
True love is when you encourage the person to live their dreams and travel distances to excellence …
True love is when you share kindness over Punishment and care over anger...
Teach the values of True love to your children not Delusion of love or convenient love…

Dr Tazeen Jamal Siddiqui, MD, Mansha Vision India fortazeen@gmail.com

Wednesday, January 24, 2018

Transmission Loss Between Teaching & Learning

Today, we explain how their is jack of connectivity between the teacher and students when they are in the process of learning. Listed below are some ideas a teacher can apply in the class to overcome this problem. This will help to establish the connectivity between the teacher and the student.

1. First of all when a teacher enters her/his class they should talk or make some thing interesting in the class to attract the attention of the students.

2. Interesting things like ( related to their subject): a teacher can play the role of any character of their chapte. 

3. The teacher can use sign language.

4. Try and connect the chapter with their own experiences and personal lives. 

5. A language teacher can start the lesson with a short poem/song related to the chapter.

6. We can ask the students to imagine  certain things and tell us how then feel or what? What they imagine ( related to the chapter ) e.g. water, the brave child etc.
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Our learning from -"Can You Teach A Zebra Some Algebra" written by  Debashih Chatterjee
- Urmila Rathore, Vimmy Rajpurohit & Tarun Mishra - The Fabindia School

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